A friend of mine has recently
gone through a great deal of life change (new baby; new job) and he now lives
in what I'd call the "new normal". His life is very different from
what it was just a few short months ago. What used to be "normal"
isn't anymore. His life is different...it's better. But it's not like it used
to be. And it will never again be the way it was.
As we go through life, we must
continually adjust what we call "normal". In reality, we're each now
living in the "new normal". At
different ages and stages along the way, life changes. Sometimes it's an abrupt
change. While at other times, change comes more gradually. Maybe you've
experienced some of these life changes:
A couple invests months, even
years, in a dating relationship thinking they are headed toward marriage.
Eventually, they break up. Previously, they identified as part of a couple, but
each of them now hits the reset button on their future...with a different
perspective. A new normal.
The parents of a newborn are
continually adjusting to their young child's sleep patterns (or lack thereof).
As soon as they think they've figured things out, a change occurs. A new
normal.
A family of three grows with the
addition of a second child. Where once the parents could play "zone defense"
now they're required to play "man-to-man". A new normal.
A promotion at work means more
income, which is great. But with it comes longer hours, greater responsibility
and more pressure. A new normal.
As a newlywed couple, your time
was your own and you slept in on Saturday mornings. Now, 10 years later, you
find yourselves at a ballpark 2-3 nights a week (plus Saturday mornings). And
you wouldn't have it any other way. A new normal.
Your parents, who you depended on
throughout your life, begin to age and begin to depend on you for some
assistance. A new normal.
This day, however it is and
whatever the circumstances, is ordained by God just for you. Be reminded of Psalm
118:24: "This is the day the Lord
has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it".
He knows your past and He knows your "new normal". And He loves you. Find joy in Him today.
He knows your past and He knows your "new normal". And He loves you. Find joy in Him today.
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