Friday, December 10, 2010
Fun on Friday
Looking forward to tomorrow's college basketball game between the Vols and the Pittsburgh Panthers. Should be a fun game to watch.
Thursday, December 9, 2010
Great Quote Thursday
Friday, December 3, 2010
Fun on Friday
On the other end of the sports spectrum are the NBA's Miami Heat. I find it humorous that the Heat are losing games at the rate of a mediocre NBA team. This summer, when LeBron James announced his made-for-TV "Decision", some began to question if the Heat would set an NBA single-season record for victories; some, only half-jokingly, questioned if they would lose any games at all. We're months from the NBA playoffs, but this is not a record-setting team right now.
Qatar (Q without a u) was just named as the host country for the 2022 FIFA World Cup. Seriously?
Thursday, December 2, 2010
Great Quote Thursday
Saturday, November 27, 2010
Senior Day
Last fall, Nick Reveiz spoke at our church's Upward Flag Football awards night. It was the night my oldest son gave his heart and life to Jesus Christ!! It was a night our family will always remember. We are grateful for the time Nick took, during the football season, to share his testimony with the participants in our league.
With a win over the Kentucky Wildcats today, the Vols become bowl-eligible. I'm really hoping today is not the last game as a Tennessee Volunteer for Nick Reveiz and Chris Walker.
Friday, November 26, 2010
Fun on Friday
I learned this week that Sonic is the official drive-in of the Southeastern Conference. Who knew?
I've blogged previously that I'm participating in a fantasy football league for the first time this season. Each week, I am amazed at the unpredictability of NFL games and the players involved. There are a few players who are consistent from week-to-week, but there are very few "sure things". Why anyone would ever gamble on football games is beyond me.
Thursday, November 25, 2010
Sunday, November 21, 2010
A Day of Commitment
Just over the mountain in Burlington, North Carolina, another commitment was made in a church service this morning. Following the morning service in which he preached, the church family of Fellowship Church in Burlington unanimously voted to call my brother Mike as their Senior Pastor. We are very excited for Mike and his family. I pray that this morning's commitment of Fellowship Church to my brother's leadership and his dedicated and committed service to them in the years ahead will be much blessed by God. Congratulations Mike! Congratulations Fellowship!
Saturday, November 20, 2010
The Time In Between
Some hospital visitation days are busier than others depending on the number of patients and hospitals to be visited. Some days are more memorable than others. Last Thursday was one of those days.
On Thursday morning, I visited and prayed with a lady who, barring a miracle, was basically waiting to die. She asked me to pray for "God's best intentions" for her. And I did. An hour or so later, I prayed for a two day old boy and his family. Within a couple of hours, I'd spent time with a family enjoying the beginning of new life and a family dealing with the end of life. And I was once again reminded that I'm living in the time in between.
If you're reading this post, you're living there too. The time in between. In between the beginning and the end.
Here's The Point: What are you doing with the time you've been given in between? Ephesians 5:15 and 16 remind us to be wise and make the most of every opportunity. That's how we should live in the time in between.
Friday, November 19, 2010
Fun on Friday
If you've not seen the UT Vols Men's Basketball team play yet, you need to catch a game and watch Tobias Harris. He's a special player.
Yesterday after visiting some church members at UT Hospital, I was walking back to the parking garage and ended up behind a man, in his hospital gown and walking with his IV, who was wearing a coat. At the first opportunity he headed outside to smoke a cigarette. A hospital patient with an IV taking a smoke break. Seriously.
Anybody tried the flavored sour cream at Salsarita's? What is that? Just wondering.
Thursday, November 18, 2010
Great Quote Thursday
Sunday, November 14, 2010
"Where's The Boy"?
My favorite Operation Christmas Child story comes from a few Christmases back when, for the first time, we thought our older son understood what the shoeboxes were all about. We had taken him shopping for items for "the boy" he was preparing the box for. He had helped place the items he'd chosen in the shoebox (mostly things he would have wanted for himself) and then helped wrap the shoebox for "the boy". On the night we took the box to church to turn it in at the collection table, with boxes stacked high along the wall, our son asked, "Where's the boy?" Turns out that our son thought he was preparing a box that he would be personally delivering to "the boy" he had shopped for. He had brought his gift for "the boy". And in that moment, I began to experience Operation Christmas Child in an entirely new way.
Here's The Point: For years, when I had prepared a shoebox, I was preparing a gift for an unknown, never-to-be-seen child somewhere on the other side of the planet. But for our son, Operation Christmas Child was personal. He expected to meet "the boy" that he had prepared the box for. He had spent time and effort on the box because it was his gift for "the boy". It wasn't about the box, it was about "the boy".
That Christmas, because of my son, I was reminded how personal ministry truly is. That "the boy" who we send a shoebox to is a child who Jesus Christ gave His life for. That Operation Christmas Child shoeboxes are not simply a thing we do each Christmas. They're about reaching "the boy" with the love of Jesus.
Friday, November 12, 2010
Fun on Friday
If you worked in the campaign of any candidate in the recent election, please make sure all your candidate's signs have been removed. What was once a campaign sign is now basically trash on the roadside.
Thursday, November 11, 2010
Great Quote Thursday
On Veterans Day 2010, a very sincere "thank you" to military veterans, several of whom I am honored to work with daily.
Tuesday, November 9, 2010
Catalyst Conference- Daniel Pink
In the workplace, people are really attuned to fairness.
Once you pay people enough, you take the issue of money off the table. Additional money does not significantly affect performance.
People connect in the workplace around three main areas:
Autonomy- People engage by choice. When people talk about their favorite boss, they mention freedoms.
Mastery- People desire to get better. For people to get better, there must be feedback.
Purpose- There are limits to the profit motive; it is insufficient.
The problem with annual performance evaluations is that they are annual.
The workplace is a feedback desert for the millennial generation when they are a feedback generation.
Monday, November 8, 2010
Catalyst Conference- Gabe Lyons
We must understand the context into which we are called. The cultural landscape is post-modern (there is skepticism toward certainty); post-Christian (a decline of Judeo-Christian thought) and pluralistic (all faiths are welcomed in society).
There are three approaches for Christians to interact with culture:
Separatist- having nothing to do with modern culture
Cultural- attempt to blend in without regard to the Gospel
Restorer- to focus on creation/fall/redemption/restoration
Don't just critique but create.
Don't just state the Good News, embody the Good News.
Christian mentors must help young adults learn to "be" Christian- "as you go make disciples".
Friday, November 5, 2010
Fun on Friday
Realized this week that it's probably been about a month since I've stepped foot in a Walmart. Gotta be a personal record.
Congratulations to my friend Andy Holt, or should I say Representative-Elect Andy Holt, for winning the election for the Tennessee State House seat for District 76 this week.
Thursday, November 4, 2010
Great Quote Thursday
Friday, October 29, 2010
Fun on Friday
Turner (he's 3) while riding the Metro:
On a Thursday morning train ride into the city: "Why people sleeping"?
On a Friday morning train ride into the city: "Why nobody happy"?
Parker (he's 6) on seeing the front lawn of the White House:
"Wow. Who mows all this grass"?
Love those boys.
Thursday, October 28, 2010
Tuesday, October 26, 2010
Catalyst Conference- Perry Noble
More time on your face and less time of Facebook will bring great revelation from God.
If it's explainable, then God didn't do it.
Elijah thought the brook was his supply, but his supply was God.
Don't run from a situation that God reigns over.
Monday, October 25, 2010
Catalyst Conference- Beth Moore
Due to social media, there is no more secret keeping. But social media is a way to reach the world with the Gospel.
Followers of Christ should surrender to Him, not a specific ministry or position.
One of the greatest difficulties in ministry is being misunderstood.
Pride is the graveyard of good leaders and insecurity is the psych ward of good leaders.
We're all miracle material.
Saturday, October 23, 2010
Catalyst Conference- Seth Godin
Most people wear a watch because the system demands that we arrive on time. There must be some standard.
Schools teach children to be obedient and fit in with others; in rows. The factory wants you to fit in so it can ignore you.
Competent is not special and is easily replaceable.
Businesses race to the bottom to be cheaper, closer, etc.
Be graceful so that when you leave a room, people hate to see you leave.
North Korea is compliant but it's not working.
It's okay to fail in a different way. Cupcake failure (trying a new recipe) is not fatal.
Apple is in the movement business, not the technology business.
Art and painting are different.
Change sometimes mean failure in the short-term.
Change is made by people who eagerly accept responsibility.
Do work that matters.
Leadership is different than management. Compliance and accountability are different.
Friday, October 22, 2010
Fun on Friday
While scanning for some sports on the radio, I found out this week that if you're a fan of Kenny Chesney, you can basically keep hitting scan on your car radio and listen to his song "The Boys of Fall" all the way from Knoxville to Nashville.
Thursday, October 21, 2010
Great Quote Thursday
Tuesday, October 19, 2010
Book Review- The Grace of God by Andy Stanley
Much has been written about the grace of God, yet Stanley's book remains enlightening. As Stanley writes, "Grace. It's what we crave most when our guilt is exposed. It's the very thing we are hesitant to extend when we are confronted with the guilt of others- especially when their guilt has robbed us of something we consider valuable". As with many of his other works, Stanley paints word-pictures that vividly shed light on a subject.
While many of Stanley's works revolve around the concepts of better communication or better leadership, this book is firmly grounded to Scripture. It's even divided into two sections, the first containing Old Testament examples of grace with the second section containing New Testament examples of grace.
I reviewed this book in conjunction with Thomas Nelson's BookSneeze program, was not compensated for this review and the opinions expressed are entirely mine.
Thursday, October 14, 2010
Great Quote Thursday
Tuesday, October 12, 2010
Catalyst Conference- Andy Stanley
All leaders have an appetite for something. Those things could include: progress, responsibility, respect, the "win", growth, fame, achievement, to be envied. But appetites always want more.
3 things about appetites:
Appetites were created by God, sin destroyed them
Appetites are never fully and finally satisfied
Appetites always whisper now, never later
We should not strive to be famous but strive to be faithful.
Friday, October 8, 2010
Fun on Friday
Bluetooth mobile phone headsets make me smile.
Speaking of cell phones, if my cell phone isn't a smart phone, does that make it a dumb phone?
For the sports fan, this is a great time of the year. The MLB playoffs are beginning; the NHL season has begun; NBA camps are opening; and the NFL is well into its season. NASCAR is in the middle of its Chase for the Sprint Cup and college football is on TV most weeknights. Good times.
Thursday, October 7, 2010
Great Quote Thursday
Thursday, September 30, 2010
Great Quote Thursday
Wednesday, September 29, 2010
Leadership Session with Tom Kilgore
Improvements must be quantifiable and noticeable.
Proper prior planning prevents poor performance.
Every organization must discuss substance and style. Substance is getting things done. Style is doing things the right way.
A motto at TVA- Better. TVA strives to be better every day. Every week. Every month. Every year.
What people help create, they will be committed to.
You are responsible for your own career.
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Ephesians- Part 3- But God
Paul expresses that we were, in effect, dead men walking. Zombielike. Without life. But God (v. 4), because of his great love for us, changed everything.
Often when the word "but" is used, it's not a helpful conjunction. Things usually transition toward the negative. For instance, sometimes when I need to apologize to my wife for something I've said, I'll often phrase it something along the lines of, "I apologize for what I said earlier, but the only reason I said it was......." and I get to take another attempt at pointing out something that I think was an issue. Most people when pulled over for speeding may admit they were speeding "but it was only 10 miles over the speed limit". Usually what comes after the word "but" is not good.
But when God did what only God could do, it was a beautiful moment. Because but for God's love, we would be without life. Dead men walking.
Monday, September 27, 2010
Book Review- Lee: A Life of Virtue by John Perry
This work, as well as the George Patton book in the Generals series, attempts to characterize and highlight the nature of both men as deeply spiritual. Yet in each book, the information the authors share is not entirely convincing. It's as if the authors desire to present the men as without fault. Also, in several portions of the book, the author comes across as an apologist for the causes of the Confederacy. This, in addition to the lack of historical notes or a significant bibliography, make this short volume a disappointment.
I reviewed this book in conjunction with Thomas Nelson's Booksneeze program, was not compensated for this review and the opinions expressed are solely mine.
Saturday, September 25, 2010
Being the Church
We had a great time. Doing good work. Being the church.
Thursday, September 23, 2010
Fun on Friday
Interesting how as the Major League Baseball season winds down that the standings are always so tight. Announcers talk at great length about the games to be played as teams come down the stretch, with much emphasis placed on the last few games of the season. But when you think about it, a "meaningless" game in early May or a game during the dog days of August counts just as much as a game in the season's final week.
Saturday, September 18, 2010
My Pleasure
And when I think about it, I can't remember if I've ever had an experience with a rude Chick-Fil-A employee. Certainly some experiences to CFA restaurants are better than others but not because the staff member is rude or discourteous.
In the fast food industry, that's quite an accomplishment.
Friday, September 17, 2010
Fun on Friday
Just watching promos for Man vs. Food on the Travel Channel upsets my cholesterol level. Really, though, how long can Adam Richman host that show before he just blows up? It can't be healthy.
Was in a local library recently and on the shelf was a complete set of Encyclopedia Britannica's.........from 2002. Wonder how long it's been since those have been used? From encyclopedias to the Google search in a decade or so, the rate of access to information has been exponentially amazing.
Thursday, September 16, 2010
Wednesday, September 15, 2010
Ephesians- Part 2- The Power of Know
Paul emphasizes how blessed we are in Christ. He wants to make sure we "know" (v. 18):
the hope of His calling (v. 18); the riches of the glory of His inheritance (v. 18); and the exceeding greatness of His power (v. 19). Paul goes on to detail the power and majesty of God the Father as displayed through Christ the Son, ever reminding us that we are abundantly blessed because of what Christ did on our behalf on the cross. The power of know is to "know" that God has blessed you, that He is with you always.
Many are familiar with the children's story of The Little Engine That Could, the "I think I can, I think I can" story. Recently, my family was at the zoo and my youngest son was attempting to traverse a rope ladder (with Tonya in close pursuit) and we overheard him say "I know I can, I know I can". Knowing some difficulties he's had to overcome, that was a beautiful moment.
Here's The Point: When a moment of crisis occurs, a follower of Christ must "know" that He cares for them. There may not be time to think or hope He's there, you need to "know" it.
Saturday, September 11, 2010
Ephesians- Part 1- Adoption
Ephesians is possibly a general letter to the early churches rather than a letter to a specific group based on the lack of individual, detailed information that Paul often included in his letters.
In verses 4 and 5, Paul tells us that "He chose us in Him before the foundation of the world" and that He "predestined us to adoption as sons by Jesus Christ". To think that God thought of me before time began is almost unfathomable; He has alot going on you know. But in recent months, this passage has taken on an extra significance for me.
We have some great friends of our family who are currently going through the adoption process, soon to adopt two young children from a foreign country. To hear them tell of how adoption has impacted them to see the story of the Gospel and the gift of salvation so much more vividly, how adoption is such a clear representation of God's love for us, has been prevalent on my mind.
And while I continue to pray for our friends as well as for two children I've yet to meet, I'm reminded that though not from a foreign country, God adopted me out of sin when I was just a young boy. For that I am eternally thankful.
Thursday, September 9, 2010
Great Quote Thursday
Tuesday, September 7, 2010
Book Review- The Boy Who Changed the World by Andy Andrews
As the book makes the linkages from Borlaug to former Vice President Henry Wallace to inventor Carver to Carver's adoptive father, Missouri farmer Moses Carver, children are reminded that they are important, that they can make a difference and that they can change the world. These are lessons that every child needs to hear.
The book is animated by Philip Hurst in a bright, colorful, vivid manner that can keep a child's interest. The artwork is quite child-friendly from the cornfield surrounding a childhood Borlaug to the scientist Carver in his laboratory to the synopsis page near the end. There are butterflies depicted throughout the book as well.
Because of its focus to encourage children to be responsible and to understand their impact on their world, I enjoyed this book more than I did Andrews' "The Butterfly Effect".
I reviewed this book in conjunction with Thomas Nelson's BookSneeze program, was not compensated for this review and the opinions expressed are solely mine.
Book Review- The Butterfly Effect by Andy Andrews
Andrews tells the Civil War story of Colonel Joshua Chamberlain of Maine and his heroic role in the battle of Gettysburg and explains the importance it played in a chain of future events. However, Andrews then links a list of assumptions to the extent that he claims that because of Chamberlain's actions the United States was victorious in World War II and in saving Europe from the clutches of Adolf Hitler and the continent of Asia from the advances of Emperor Hirohito and his Japanese forces!
The book also shares the linkages between Moses Carver, a Missouri farmer in the 1800's and the feeding of billions worldwide. This story is also shared in a children's book, "The Boy Who Changed the World".
The concepts that every life impacts others and that every life matters should not be forgotten. However, although an interesting take on the "six degrees of separation" or "ripple effect", Andrews' book "The Butterfly Effect" makes some assumptions that are a bit stretched.
I reviewed this book in conjunction with Thomas Nelson's BookSneeze program, was not compensated for this review and the opinions expressed are solely mine.
Saturday, September 4, 2010
Book Review- James K. Polk by John Seigenthaler
Serving as President in the span between Jackson and Lincoln, Polk is included in a group of former Chief Executives whom are not highly noted in history (others include Tyler, Pierce, Fillmore, Buchanan). Many are lowly regarded for their poor leadership, yet Polk's accomplishments stand out in comparison. The back cover notes by author John Seigenthaler provide a brief snapshot of Polk's presidency:
"James Knox Polk surely is history's most underappreciated president. Few Americans have any awareness that in four years he engineered the annexation of Texas, bluffed the British out of Oregon, waged war with Mexico to take California and New Mexico, enlarged the country's land mass by a third and made the United States a continental nation. To read his presidential diary is to be retrospectively introduced to a chief magistrate who was tough-minded, strong-willed, egocentric, sometimes petty, usually predictable, often duplicitous, and always partisan. He served but one term by his own choice, pledging as a candidate that he would not seek reelection. He kept his word. A complete workaholic, he left office worn and ill and went home to Nashville to recover his health. It hardly seems fair that three months after leaving the White House he was dead".
Upon reading Seigenthaler's concise yet quite detailed account of Polk's life, my impressions of Polk include the following: he was very driven; he was probably too beholden to Andrew Jackson; he was an ultra-partisan politician; his ability to keep a detailed journal/diary while President was impressive; he was probably not highly likable; he was obviously quite effective. Seigenthaler is fair in his presentation of both Polk's qualities as well as his weaknesses.
Seigenthaler includes notes throughout the book, a detailed bibliography and a chronological history of Polk's life. This was an excellent book that I can highly recommend if you are interested in learning more about the 11th President of the United States. Based on this work, I will also be likely to read other works by Seigenthaler.
Friday, September 3, 2010
Fun on Friday
Speaking of the NFL, I've watched enough preseason game action to be reminded that NFL players are required to wear some ugly NFL officially designed caps and visors. Not NASCAR cap ugly, with the flames and all, but still some bad designs.
Recently, we tried one of the new banana berry smoothies at McDonald's. Our 3 year old, Turner, was not impressed. Apparently, it was a bit too sour for him. After taking a small sip, he replied, "Ooo, that hurt my feelings".
Thursday, September 2, 2010
Wednesday, September 1, 2010
Quality Customer Service
In the check-out area at the front of the store, he often works the express lane. As my family is a regular Target guest, we've been through Bill's line on several occasions. In each instance, he's provided excellent customer service. Always a "how are you today?". Always a "did you find what you were looking for?". Always a "thank you" and a "have a good day". In addition, he takes time to speak to our boys and that's always a plus.
And over time, here's what I've noticed. Unless we're in a real hurry or unless we can walk directly up to another cashier, we'll wait and go through Bill's checkout lane. Why? Because he provides quality customer service.
Which makes me wonder, do I provide quality customer service where I work? What about you?
Tuesday, August 31, 2010
Church Matters Because Church Matters- Part 2
In Ephesians chapter 5, Paul compares the love Christ has for the church with the love a groom has for his bride. At every wedding there is joy. You can see it on the faces of the brides and grooms. To emphasize this point, recently we've requested wedding photos from the couples in our Bible Fellowship class which is comprised of young married couples (we also have some engaged couples as well). We shared those photos in a slide show on Sunday. Not surprisingly, there was a beautiful bride in each photo. Because there are no ugly brides.
And neither is the bride of Christ. Even with its flaws, the bride of Christ is beautiful. Because Christ "gave Himself for her" (Ephesians 5:25). But unfortunately, many people, many of those who are a part of the church, the body of Christ, don't feel beautiful. Maybe it's because of a choice they made 5 years ago. A decision they made 2 years ago. Something they did 2 months ago. Or maybe, it's because of something that happened to them in the past. And they can't get past it.
But they must. Because Christ sees them as beautiful. Because they've been forgiven. And because the message of the Gospel is too important to live in the long-since forgiven past. Because the church matters.
Friday, August 27, 2010
Fun on Friday
But if I'm going to coach soccer, I knew I needed a new pair of cleats. This past weekend, Tonya and I looked for a pair of cleats, stopped in the Adidas outlet and found a pair on sale. They fit well and looked pretty good on me, almost to the point where it actually might look like I know what I'm doing. Maybe no one will notice.
Fantasy football- This fall, I'm making my first ever foray into a fantasy football league. I'm in a league along with 11 other guys in our Bible Fellowship class. With 12 teams in the league, it should be interesting to see how it all works out. But while the other 11 guys are hoping to win the league, my goal is simply not to finish 12th and last. That would be embarrassing.
Thursday, August 26, 2010
Wednesday, August 25, 2010
Get Motivated Business Seminar- Colin Powell and others
- The best leaders inspire others
- Great leaders resource their organization
- Recognize good performance
- Recognize poor performance
- The essence of leadership is trust
- Look through the windshield, not the rear view mirrors or side mirrors. You can't do anything about what's behind you.
Bob Kittell offered- There are two important steps: Learn something new and do something new. The second step is the hard one but it is the one that causes movement.
James Smith shared:
- It's not the big things but the small things that matter
- You are who/where you are today because of what you did 5-10 years ago
- Your past is not your future unless you allow it to become that
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Get Motivated Business Seminar- Bruce Pearl
- Raise the expectations you have for yourself
- Focus on the process, not just the end result; you can control the process but not the outcome
- Enjoy the process; be somebody people want to be around
- Put people in positions to succeed
- Treat people fairly, not necessarily the same
- Hard work won't guarantee success but without hard work you won't be successful
- To be a great communicator, be a good listener
Monday, August 23, 2010
Get Motivated Business Seminar- Lou Holtz
- Everything starts with a dream, a vision, not a strategic plan.
- Evaluate the WIN: What's Important Now
- You're either trying to get better or you're choosing to maintain.
- Focus on your purpose. If you understand your purpose, you'll embrace change. If you're changing to meet your purpose, that is positive.
- Lift people up. Have meaningful relationships. People have 3 main questions for their leaders: Can I trust you? Are you committed to excellence? Do you care about me?
- Leaders should: do the right thing; do your best always so you don't negatively impact others; have a kind word of encouragement so people know you care
Saturday, August 21, 2010
Get Motivated Business Seminar
There were some low points to the day:
- Robert Schuller (Crystal Cathedral) opened the morning by asking, "We're in Knoxville, Tennessee this morning, right?" and you got the impression he truly was not sure what city he was in.
- Legendary motivational speaker Zig Ziglar appeared mid-morning and was "interviewed" by his daughter. However, due to a recent fall and declining health, Ziglar's presentation was, at best, difficult to watch.
- I'm still not really sure what Rudy Giuliani was trying to say.
- There were a couple of sales pitches made during the day. However, if you ignored your way through those, there was some good material shared.
In the next couple of posts, I will share some notes from some of the better sessions from the Get Motivated Business Seminar.
Friday, August 20, 2010
Fun on Friday
Surely no one is surprised that Brett Favre is playing another season. Watching video of fans chasing him and lining the roads near the Vikings training camp to cheer for him was reminiscent of the way people responded to O.J. Simpson when he was on the run from the LAPD.
Thursday, August 19, 2010
Tuesday, August 17, 2010
Book Review- Compassionate Leadership by Ted Engstrom and Paul Cedar
The book contains significant portions of leadership advice that could be found in any number of other works. In many instances, the authors draw from Scripture to provide biblical examples, much from the life of Christ. However, the book is often very broad in nature and attempts to coverage a wide range of information but none of it in significant detail. Additionally, at times the book becomes somewhat repetitive.
While I would love to recommend this book and following the example of Christ is certainly my goal, this book is only average at best.
Monday, August 16, 2010
One Step
I had lunch last week with a friend (now a young Dad who is heavily involved in ministry) who reflected on how, before he became a Dad, he thought he was busy and involved in serving others. Now that he's truly busy, he looks back and wishes he had been more involved when he had the opportunity.
Do you need to take One Step?
Sunday, August 15, 2010
Church Matters Because Church Matters
In Ephesians 2:19, the church is referred to as "the household of God"; in effect, the church is to be a family. Members of a family do things together. Members of a family care for one another. They make memories together. They experience life together.
I am blessed to be a part of a Bible Fellowship class that experiences life together from serving together in our church and in our community to eating out as a group to softball games and much more.
Life together is better. Plus, it's biblical.
Friday, August 13, 2010
Fun on Friday
Last week, we visited my brother and his family in North Carolina. Based on all of the license plates that we saw, much of the state of Ohio was there too.
Thursday, August 12, 2010
Great Quote Thursday
Wednesday, August 11, 2010
Welcome Home to Justin Wax
Welcome home Justin and thank you for your service to our country. We are thankful for your safe return.
Saturday, August 7, 2010
Book Review- Patton: The Pursuit of Destiny by Agostino Von Hassell and Ed Breslin
First, the authors go to great lengths in the prologue to denigrate General Omar Bradley when compared to General Patton. The reasoning for this is unclear.
Secondly, Patton is portrayed as possibly one of the great cavalrymen in the history of the United States Army as well as one of the Army's all-time great strategists, tacticians, teachers and trainers, tank unit commanders and so on. While he may have had great strengths in these areas, no man is the best-ever in each of these disciplines.
Thirdly, though the back cover states that the book is written "without varnishing over his shortcomings", the authors make a great effort to explain the reasoning behind many of the "shortcomings" of Patton, from his excessive and unnecessary profanity to his slapping of two WWII soldiers, calling them "cowards" because he was afraid that anyone would accuse him of cowardice. Little is noted of Patton's womanizing, alcohol abuse and depression.
Finally, while the authors include a bibliography of 11 items, there are no notes given throughout the text. In fact, only periodically do the authors refer to previous works by other historians.
To get a sense of the major points in Patton's life, this book is effective in its ability to highlight those events that shaped the general's impact. However, its presentation is too uneven in its pro-Patton nature as to be objective.
I reviewed this book in conjunction with Thomas Nelson's BookSneeze program, was not compensated for this review and the opinions expressed are solely mine.
Friday, August 6, 2010
Fun on Friday
Me: "I'd like to order ice cream in a cup instead of a cone".
Cashier: "So you'd like a plain sundae"?
Me: "Yes, I guess. If that's what you call ice cream in a cup".
Glad that fall practice for college football began this week and that NFL camps are open.
Speaking of fast food restaurants. The person who creates a way to more easily and cleanly dispense cup lids will make a fortune.
The baseball trading deadline came and went and the Yankees reloaded again. I'm no Yankees hater, but with their vast financial resources, it should be celebrated anytime another team besides the Yankees wins the World Series.
Thursday, August 5, 2010
Great Quote Thursday
Wednesday, August 4, 2010
Book Review- How to Get to the Top: Business Lessons Learned at the Dinner Table by Jeffrey Fox
The practical, easy-to-read chapters include the following titles: "When Thomas Jefferson Dined Alone"; "Quality in Not Job 1"; "Buzzsaw the Buzzwords"; and "Don't Park in Front of Your Store". My favorite, however, describing the necessity of putting the right people in the right positions is titled "Don't Put General Patton in Charge of the Mess Hall".
Tuesday, August 3, 2010
Elijah- The Importance of Mentoring
II Kings chapter 2 records the last moments in the life of Elijah. He knows the end is near and he begins a journey from Gilgal to Bethel to Jericho and on to the Jordan River. At each step along the way, his protege, Elisha, vows to follow his mentor to the end. In verse 9, Elijah asks Elisha "What may I do for you, before I am taken away from you"?; basically providing Elisha an opportunity to glean any additional wisdom or information that my help him in the future. Elisha's response was to request that a "double portion" of Elijah's spirit be upon him. Very possibly, Elisha felt he was only half the man that his mentor Elijah was.
Here's The Point: Elijah had mentored Elisha and gained his respect. Elisha honored his mentor by retracing some major moments in Elijah's life (v. 25) and carrying on the work, in some ways to greater heights than his mentor ever reached. The practice of mentoring is Biblical. Christ and the disciples. Moses and Joshua. Elijah and Elisha.
What about you? If you're not involved in a mentoring process, even an informal one, you're missing out.
Monday, August 2, 2010
Vision Ministry
Sunday, August 1, 2010
Elijah- Preparing for the Future
It's human nature to wonder about the future. Often, people will ask God for guidance, wisdom and direction when making both short or long-term plans. Many times, we are simply called to trust God and follow Him by faith. But sometimes, as in I Kings 19, God lays out a specific plan of action as He did for Elijah. As Elijah struggles with depression, in verses 15 and 16, Elijah is told what steps to take next (and he is reminded that God will take care of him- verses 17 and 18).
Here's the Point: While we often want to know God's will, we don't often act on what we already know to do. In the case of Elijah, even after God shared a three-step plan with him, there is no record that Elijah followed the plan God had graciously laid out for him. While Elijah is told to anoint Elisha as his successor, Elijah simply calls Elisha as his assistant. Not a way to prepare for the future.
Friday, July 30, 2010
Fun on Friday- Second Annual Big Guy Weekend
But the best part of the weekend was one on one time with Parker. We are blessed to be raising a great Big Guy.
Thursday, July 29, 2010
Great Quote Thursday
Tuesday, July 27, 2010
Book Review- Abraham Lincoln by Thomas Keneally
A benefit of the biographies in the Penguin Lives series is that the reader gets to see a brief and broad review of an individual's life. However, the difficulty with books of this sort, as with all biographies of the deceased, is that they are really compilations of the works of others. The author/compiler can paint the subject of the work in whatever light they choose.
What is not contested is that Abraham Lincoln was driven by a thirst for knowledge and information and made obvious his desire to rise above the agrarian-trade economy and society in which his harsh and uneducated father, Thomas Lincoln, raised him. Keneally shares a memorable story to this effect on page 9. As a teenager, Abraham Lincoln, while manning a cockboat that ferried passengers attempting to catch oncoming steamers at the confluence of the Anderson and Ohio Rivers, had two men toss a silver half-dollar into his boat as they exited to board a steamer. Keneally notes that years later in the White House, Lincoln would say of this moment "Gentlemen, you may think a very little thing...but it was the most important incident in my life. The world seemed wider and fairer to me". While one might think being elected President of the United States was Lincoln's brightest moment, he found his enlightenment of a more diverse world that was to become available to him to be his life's shining moment.
At under 200 pages, obviously a sketch of Lincoln's life, Keneally's book is worth the read.
Monday, July 26, 2010
Limited or Unlimited
I've found the unlimited soup, salad and breadsticks lunch at Olive Garden to my liking. It's currently available at a reduced price, but of course, this offer is only available for a limited time.
Owning a limited edition print can be a great investment.
Unlimited refills at restaurants are always a good thing.
If you own a piece of memorabilia that is handsigned and the available quantities of similar pieces are limited, you may have something quite valuable.
If you have a season pass to an amusement park, allowing you unlimited access to all the park has to offer for every day the park is open, you can do alot with that.
And sometimes something that's unlimited can be both good and bad. Like a pizza buffet. All the pizza you want (good) but it's maybe not of the highest quality (bad) and if you overdo it, you'll truly feel it (bad) later.
Friday, July 23, 2010
Fun on Friday
Is anyone is sports more overhyped than Danica Patrick? She's constantly in the media and is in multiple commercials for various products and companies. But she's not really a competitive racer in either the Nationwide Series or the Izod IndyCar Series. Most drivers running 62nd (Nationwide) or 11th (Izod IndyCar) in a racing series are just glad to have a sponsor.
Quickly becoming a big fan of Taco Bell's $2.00 Meal Deals.
Thursday, July 22, 2010
Great Quote Thursday
Saturday, July 17, 2010
Is Your Marriage Rock Solid?
In a letter written to the church's membership and posted on his Desiring God website, Piper explained that one reason for his need to take some time away is to focus on his marriage:
"Noel and I are rock solid in our commitment to each other, and there is no whiff of unfaithfulness on either side. But, as I told the elders, "rock solid" is not always an emotionally satisfying metaphor, especially to a woman. A rock is not the best image of a woman's tender companion. In other words, the precious garden of my home needs tending."
Here's The Point: I had always thought of being "rock solid" as a positive thing. But every garden needs tending to prevent weeds and to flower as it should.
Friday, July 16, 2010
Fun on Friday
Recently flew to Florida on Allegiant Air. Oddly enough, it cost more for my bag to return to Knoxville than it did for me to get home.
One benefit of the dry, hot weather we've been having is that a guy doesn't need to mow his yard as often.
Thursday, July 15, 2010
Great Quote Thursday
Monday, July 12, 2010
Book Review- Louie Giglio's The Air I Breathe
It won't take you long to read this book and it's good to be reminded that worship is central in the life of a Christ follower. The book is worth your time to read.
Friday, July 9, 2010
Fun on Friday
United States Postal Service postage stamps are going up in price again. This time to 46 cents. If you think about it, 46 cents to get a piece of mail sent from your house to mine is actually not a bad deal. But with online banking and private competition, the USPS continues to spiral downward (billions in financial losses even after cutting 40,000 jobs). Some things eventually run their course.
More and more I find myself using my cell phone as a flashlight. It's odd but I've found it to be a very helpful feature.
Thursday, July 8, 2010
Great Quote Thursday
Wednesday, July 7, 2010
Elijah- Dealing With Discouragement
In I Kings 19, Elijah's life is threatened by King Ahab's wife Jezebel. As a result, he deals with discouragement bordering on depression. As I study through chapter 19, I realize there are some great lessons for us to learn when we are dealing with discouragement:
1. Remember how good God has been to you- v. 3, 4
When Elijah's life is threatened, he flees in fear. He clearly forgets how good God has been to him (forgetting how God previously saved his life when Ahab sought to kill him; forgetting how God showed his glory and power on Mount Carmel)
2. Remember God always provides- v. 5-8
God provided water and food for Elijah during the period of the drought; God provided for Elijah by using a poor widow
3. Remember you are not alone- v. 18
When Elijah moans that he alone is left to honor and worship God, God tells him that He has 7000 followers who still love Him
Here's The Point: When discouragement comes, and it will, it's good to remember how good God has always been to us; to remember that God always provides (though maybe not in the way or in the time frame we'd prefer); and to remember that no matter what our struggles are that we are not alone, that others have experienced what we're going through.
Friday, July 2, 2010
Fun on Friday
I'm living the life.
Thursday, July 1, 2010
Great Quote Thursday
Tuesday, June 29, 2010
Elijah- Mountain Showdown
In I Kings 18, Elijah calls the prophets of Baal to Mount Carmel for a showdown to prove once and for all who is the one, true God. In verse 21, we learn that the children of Israel are divided in their loyalties between Jehovah and Baal. Elijah says they must choose one.
Though his followers prepare a sacrifice and call for him, Baal doesn't show up; "there was no voice; no one answered, no one paid attention" (v. 29). But Elijah prepares a sacrifice to Jehovah, has the wood and the sacrifice repeatedly covered in water, and then he calls for God to consume the offering and God does (v. 36-38).
But it is verse 39 that stands out to me. Only after God did something amazing did the people believe Him and choose to follow Him.
Here's The Point: How many times do we want God to something "big" for us to trust Him? When, in reality, the fact that He gives us breath to breathe is amazing. And undeserved.
Monday, June 28, 2010
Book Review- Scott Dickson's Never Give Up
Never Give Up- 7 Principles for Christians Leading in Tough Times offers the following wisdom:
Principle #1: Put Fear in its Place
Principle #2- Remember to Pray
Principle #3- Get God's Perspective
Principle #4- Provide "Front-Line" Leadership
Principle #5- Communicate- Often and Honestly
Principle #6- Persevere through Everything
Principle #7- Focus on the "Bigger Picture"
Dickson draws from Biblical examples as well as his own personal experiences to share wisdom to those who lead in and through difficult situations. What makes Dickson's writing more interesting is that Vanguard did not survive. There was no happy ending for Vanguard.
This is a good, but not great, book. However, the wisdom shared is beneficial.
Friday, June 25, 2010
Fun on Friday
How is it possible for traffic to completely stop on the interstate? Not that I want to see a vehicle broken down on the side of the road. I certainly don't want to see a bloody crash site. But I continue to be amazed at how often you can be driving down the interstate at 70 MPH and then a half mile later you're sitting perfectly still. For seemingly no reason.
Not usually a breakfast eater but recently I found myself driving our family through a McDonald's drive-thru to get some jelly biscuits. I ordered the jelly biscuits at $1.25 each until I noticed that sausage biscuits were only $1.00. I then cancelled my jelly biscuit order, ordered sausage biscuits for $1.00 each and then requested and received free packets of jelly. Go figure.
Thursday, June 24, 2010
Great Quote Thursday
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
Elijah- A Man Named Obadiah
In I Kings 18, we meet a man named Obadiah. A follower of God but also a leading servant in the house of the wicked King Ahab. A man with a job that no one would really want. But a man who risked his own certain death by hiding and subsequently providing for 100 prophets of God during a period of drought and famine. A man who played a significant role in the history of Israel with very little historical notice. And therein lies a great lesson.
Here's the Point: God used Obadiah where he was. In a place that wasn't easy. In a difficult work environment. To have a major impact.
Often people wish for a better or different job because their current job is hard and/or the coworkers are difficult. But the Bible consistently tells us of people (Joseph, Daniel, Nehemiah.....Obadiah) who worked in very difficult work environments but people for whom God had a great plan and used them where they were.
Sunday, June 20, 2010
Happy Father's Day
I know several guys who are celebrating their very first Father's Day this year. To them, and to me, Happy Father's Day!
Friday, June 18, 2010
Fun on Friday
Never been a huge soccer fan but I find the World Cup very interesting. Also, those buzzing horns are pretty cool. Wouldn't mind having one of those.
Thursday, June 17, 2010
Tuesday, June 15, 2010
Book Review- Margaret Feinberg's Scouting the Divine
"What does it mean to know Jesus as the Good Shepherd when the only places I've encountered sheep are at petting zoos? How can I understand the promise of a land overflowing with honey when I buy mine in a bear-shaped bottle? Is it possible to grasp the urgency of Jesus' invitation to abide in the vine when I shop for grapes at a local grocery store"?
To better understand the Biblical culture, Feinberg spent time with and interviewed a shepherdess, a farmer, a bee keeper and a vintner. Scouting the Divine helps explain the immense care given by as well the important role a shepherd plays; the effort that goes into tending farmland; the intricacy of the beehive and the beauty and variety of honey; and the detail and difficulty associated with cultivating a vineyard.
Written in an easy-to-read, storytelling style, I enjoyed reading this book.
Sunday, June 13, 2010
Elijah- The "Now" Moment
In I Kings 17:8, God tells Elijah to go to Zarephath. Enemy territory. He's told a widow will provide for him there. He goes as instructed and meets the widow. He asks her for a cup of water....during a drought. She obliges. He asks her for a meal....when she is almost out of food. She obliges. All because of the promise from God that Elijah shares in verse 14 that her food supply will not run out until it rains again. She takes Elijah at his word. But...
But only after God later heals her son (verse 22), does the widow begin to truly believe. From verse 24: "Now I know you are a man of God and the Lord's word in your mouth is the truth".
Here's The Point: The widow's "Now" moment doesn't come immediately. It's only after she'd spent time with Elijah, found him to be an honest man and then learned of his God, did she truly begin to believe. His life, his living testimony, matched his words. Over time. There's a lesson to be learned in that.
Friday, June 11, 2010
Fun on Friday
I get headaches from time to time. I've learned that Excedrin is often very effective. Excedrin comes in many formats: PM, Back and Body, Tension Headache and several others including the standard, original version. But it's all pretty much the same stuff. Kind of like Mexican food. There not much difference in tacos, burritos, chalupas, etc.
Tried the new Spicy Chicken Sandwich from Chick-fil-A this week. Won't order it every time but it's a nice addition to the menu. Still the classic Chick-fil-A sandwich but the new flavor adds a nice kick.
Thursday, June 10, 2010
Great Quote Thursday
Wednesday, June 9, 2010
D-Day Memorial Photos
Here are some photos from our recent visit to the National D-Day Memorial in Bedford, Virginia. As I posted on Monday, our visit proved to be a moving experience. While our pictures tell part of the story and the Memorial's website is informative, this brief video that Tonya recorded
shows the centerpiece of the Memorial- a pool depicting a landing craft unloading soldiers as they begin their assault on the beaches of Normandy. Charges are randomly discharged in the pool, simulating gunfire from above. An experience we will long remember.
Tuesday, June 8, 2010
One Man's D-Day Story
A little background: As part of my son's elementary school's accelerated reading program, this spring he began to bring home biography/history books of well-known Americans (Dwight Eisenhower, John Kennedy among others). In these books, each of these men are referred to as a "war hero". I mentioned to Parker that we knew a war hero at our church, James Self, who had participated in the D-Day invasion of the beaches of Normandy. The following Sunday, I introduced Parker to Mr. Self and we were invited over to his house ("I have some pictures he might want to see") to look at some of his photos from his World War II days. We were honored to be invited and began to look forward to our visit.
Arriving at Mr. Self's house, we headed to the dining room table to look through a photo album of his time in the U. S. Army. This is his story. Mr. Self entered the Army shortly after his high school graduation. He spent 6 weeks in the Midwest in basic training, then had another 2 weeks of training in the swamps of Louisiana. After being allowed to return home for a few brief days, he was told to report to New York City in preparation for being sent overseas. After a brief period of training in Great Britain, he soon found himself on a ship headed toward the Normandy coast of France.
During our visit, there was one question I had to ask, somewhat reluctantly: Were you scared? With a bit of a chuckle, Mr. Self replied, "Scared? No, I wasn't scared. We just had a job to do and we did it. And if we died, we died". I did not know how to respond to that.
The highlight of our visit is the photo below. My 6 year old son and the 86 year old Mr. Self spending time together looking through the photo album from World War II. Intergenerational. The sharing of history. The showing of respect, admiration and appreciation. Parker and I are grateful for the time spent with Mr. Self but more importantly for his courage showed on D-Day and in the service of our country.
Monday, June 7, 2010
The National D-Day Museum
I hope you'll take some time to check out the Memorial's website and view the photo gallery. Visiting the National D-Day Memorial proved to be a moving experience and I will post some of our photos later this week.
Sunday, June 6, 2010
66th Anniversary of D-Day
But there were many men who lived through that battle and lived to tell about it. I will share the story of one of those men this week. Also, recently, my family visited the National D-Day Memorial in Bedford, Virginia and I will post some information and photos from that very moving experience.
Take some time this week via internet or otherwise to learn about the enormity of the D-Day invasion, the effect it had on the outcome of the war and ultimately the free world. And if you know one of the men who served in that battle, please express your appreciation to him. I do and I will.
Saturday, June 5, 2010
Blogging Book Reviews
I'd encourage you to check out Godin's blog as well.
Friday, June 4, 2010
Fun on Friday
I'm amazed at the effectiveness of Chick-fil-A's marketing campaign where the company is giving away millions of its new Spicy Chicken Sandwich in advance of the sandwich's menu debut. Some companies just get it.
Isn't it frustrating when you mow your grass one evening and then the next evening it looks like you need to mow it again?
Thursday, June 3, 2010
Great Quote Thursday
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
Elijah- Out of Nowhere
As I Kings chapter 16 ends, we're introduced to King Ahab in verse 33 as a wicked king who "did more to provoke the Lord God of Israel than all the kings of Israel who were before him". It is this culture and environment that Elijah walks into when he arrives on the scene at the beginning of I Kings 17. At the risk of his own life, Elijah has been chosen by God to confront King Ahab. And the first thing we learn about Elijah is that he is a Tishbite or from the land of Tish. In effect, Elijah came out of nowhere because Tish is a small town, not a well-known destination in Scripture. And therein lies a lesson for all of us.
Here's The Point: It doesn't matter where you're from, God can use you. Your hometown, your history and your family heritage don't matter when you commit your heart and life to God. Just as with King David in I Samuel chapter 16, we're reminded again that "the Lord looks at the heart".
Monday, May 31, 2010
Book Review- God's Promises for Boys
The concept of the book is quite basic. The book is divided into sections (God's Promises When...; God's Promises About Jesus; and five others). In support of each promise, the authors include a four-line poem, a cartoon illustration by Richard Watson that relates to the promise and 3-4 verses from the International Children's Bible.
Upon receiving the book, I was surprised there was not more to it. After reading the book, I felt the same way. While the Scriptures listed are always applicable (not just for boys, but people of all ages), I expected more than a book of brief poems, possibly a book containing inspiring biographical sketches or stories of fulfilled promises. This book might be best used as a conversation starter with young boys. I've shared the book with my sons and we have used it in our nightly devotional time on occasion but I do not anticipate that it will become part of our regular rotation before bedtime.
Friday, May 28, 2010
Fun on Friday
Speaking of Mountain Dew, I would not suggest brushing your teeth and then immediately starting to drink a Dew. Just not pleasant.
I wonder what percentage of its programming that ESPN spends on Brett Favre and LeBron James updates. I realize those guys are megastars but I'd like to watch one SportsCenter without a segment on those two.
Thursday, May 27, 2010
Great Quote Thursday
Wednesday, May 26, 2010
Just Do It- James 5 (Patience and Perseverance)
James 5:8 tells us to "establish your hearts", some translations say to "strengthen your hearts". Why? For the long haul, for the long run. To be patient and persevere. Because the coming of the Lord is near.
It's so tempting to want instant success. To want microwaved results. It's so difficult to wait and be patient.
But it takes time for seeds to germinate and flower. It takes a long time before a sapling provides shade. We must think long-term, not simply for the moment.
Tuesday, May 25, 2010
Innovate Conference- Ergun Caner/Jim Cymbala
Ergun Caner is the President of Liberty Theological Seminary. His session at Innovate included the following:
- We are united by doctrine, devotion and direction
- The enemy of ministry is bureaucracy
- Your scars tell your story. Yet we tend to want to hide our scars.
- Rather than seeking answers in Scripture, we often look for new paradigms of what is "working" elsewhere
- In Jeremiah's day, the false prophets had the biggest crowds while the true prophet was not listened to. Crowds are not a sign of God's approval. They do not validate a ministry.
Monday, May 24, 2010
Innovate Conference- Jack Graham/Brian Bloye
- Your character is more important than your reputation. Praying is more important than preaching. A message is more important than a sermon. Being credible is more important than being credentialed. Faithfulness is more important than success. Eternity is more important than earth.
- People are not looking for perfection but progression.
- Don't just get things done, be passionate.
- Prayerlessness promotes independence and self-reliance.
- Ways to show you care: be approachable; have a "yes" face; offer positive praise; say thank you; know names; be accepting; be prompt
- Sometimes God sets us aside to strengthen and refine use; don't bail on the process.
- God is more concerned with maturing me and developing my character than about my comfort
- Sometimes what God does is in answer to our prayers
- A dry brook is often a sign of God's pleasure, not His disappointment in my life
Sunday, May 23, 2010
Innovate Conference- Mark Batterson/Ed Stetzer
- The only thing more dangerous than asking God what He wants to do with your life is not asking Him that question.
- We learn how and forget why.
- We don't really want spiritual maturity but rather self-sufficiency and then to call it spiritual maturity.
- If God gives the vision, He will provide the provision. Don't let budget determine vision. Have vision beyond your resources. Don't let human circumstance define the sovereignty of God.
- Don't do ministry out of memory but out of imagination.
- In the church, we've grown accustomed to recruiting instead of reconciliation. We're called to reconciliation. That is called evangelism. Evangelism is not simply inviting people to church.
- Outreach can become the enemy of evangelism when the preaching of Christ is not the goal. We must go and tell, not simply be attractional. We're called to be, do and tell Good News.
Saturday, May 22, 2010
Innovate Conference- Chuck Swindoll
Earlier this week, I attended the Innovate Conference at Thomas Road Baptist Church in Lynchburg, Virginia. Over the next several posts, I will share some of my notes from the conference sessions.
Chuck Swindoll, the former President of Dallas Theological Seminary, has served in ministry for over 50 years and currently serves as the Senior Pastor of Stonebriar Community Church in Frisco, Texas. Here is some of what he shared in his session:
Know who you are; accept who you are; be who you are
Retirement is an American dream not a Christian dream
Every day is not a fantastic or great day. Some days are okay. Be honest. Tell the truth. Some days are hard.
According to I Corinthians 4: 1-2, if you are involved in ministry, you are called to be a servant and a steward. Servant meaning "under rower"; a ship does not move unless someone is moving the oars. Steward meaning "housekeeper"; the hungry and thirsty are not fed unless someone prepares. In ministry, we must keep our oars in the water (do the work and serve) and take time to prepare meals (to feed those with spiritual needs).
Four constant reminders in ministry:
1. Guard your imagination
2. Restrain all rationalization
3. Leave no room in ministry for deception
4. Always ask what is my motive?
Friday, May 21, 2010
Fun on Friday- The Ice Cream Man
Now, granted, it's decades later and times have changed. But I now see the ice cream man in an entirely different way than when I was a kid. Since my Mom is all about safety, I'm sure buying ice cream from the ice cream man seemed like an okay thing to do when I was a child. But in 2010?
Think about this:
1.Usually a van that cruises the local park looking for children is considered a bad thing. More like a "hey, call the police" kind of thing.
2. Under what other circumstances do we so freely allow our children to speak to strangers?
3. In what other scenario do we purchase food products of such unknown origin?
4. Do these guys have any certification from the health department?
5. Why is the van always a cargo van with no windows or if the van does have windows, why are they always covered with stickers?
6. Why were the guys in the ice cream van I saw at a park last week so rough looking, like they just got out of prison?
7. Where exactly do they get a copy of the carousel/calliope music they blast out of the loud speaker atop the van? That music has not changed in years.
Just something to think about the next time you see the ice cream man and his van drive through your subdivision or local park.
Thursday, May 20, 2010
Monday, May 17, 2010
Just Do It- James 4 (Doing vs. Not Doing)
We often think of our sin in terms of the bad/evil/wrong things that we do. The church phrase for those sins are sins of comission. Things we do. Sins we commit. But this week I was struck by the power of James 4: 17: "So, for the person who knows to do good and doesn't do it, it is a sin". These are sometimes known as sins of omission. These are easier for us to overlook. Easier for us to ignore. But God doesn't.
Comission vs. omission. Doing vs. not doing. We must remember that not doing the right things is just as bad as doing the wrong things.
Friday, May 14, 2010
Fun on Friday
Why is Betty White all over TV and the Internet right now? Is there a Golden Girls reunion in the works?
Wow, did the Cleveland Cavaliers crash or what?
Thursday, May 13, 2010
Great Quote Thursday
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
Just Do It- James 3 (Wisdom For Marriage)
Much of James chapter 3 deals with the struggles in controlling the tongue (our words, our speech). But at the end of the chapter, the text adjusts to address the need for heavenly wisdom as opposed to earthly wisdom:
V. 16-18: "For where envy and selfish ambition exist, there is disorder and every kind of evil. But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peace-loving, gentle, compliant, full of mercy and good fruits, without favoritism and hypocrisy. And the fruit of righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace".
Our class is comprised of young married couples as well as engaged couples (two couples are getting married next weekend). And while this passage is not specifically dealing with marriage, the qualities listed are certainly excellent wisdom for marriage.
Monday, May 10, 2010
Sunday's Coming
Friday, May 7, 2010
Fun on Friday- Put It Up
Our house, with a 6 year old boy and an almost 3 year old boy, is full of activity. And full of trains. And balls. And toys. And art supplies. To say that frequent effort is made to keep things in order would be an understatement.
This past week, the following conversation occurred:
Tonya: What about these books?
Parker: You didn't tell me to pick up those.
So as a result of the above conversation, my wife began reminding our sons of the need to put things back in their place using the following mantra:
If you get it out, put it up.
If you see it out, put it up.
If you didn't get it out, put it up.
We'll see if this helps the cause.
Thursday, May 6, 2010
Wednesday, May 5, 2010
Book Review- John Maxwell's The Right To Lead
Maxwell notes 7 characteristics (Action, Vision, Sacrifice, Risk, Determination, Service and Integrity) that are the marks of exceptional leaders. He notes that, ultimately, it is the character of an individual that makes them a good leader.
If you are a fan of Maxwell's material, you'll be interested in this book. It might make a good gift for a soon-to-be-graduate that you know. But don't expect anything really new.
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
Just Do It- James 2 (Bad Sins vs. Okay Sins)
James 2:10 tells us: "For whoever keeps the entire law, yet fails in one point, is guilty of (breaking it) all" (HCSB). Since that's true, why do so many followers of Christ think in terms of "Bad" sins and "Okay" sins? Why do many Christians consider murder, adultery and rape as horrible sins (and they are) but these same people have no trouble with anger, questionable language or overeating?