Great Quote Thursday

You will never reach your destination if you stop and throw stones at every dog that barks- Winston Churchill

Point for the Day- Unexpected (#9)

From the teaching series, Unexpected (a look at the Book of Ruth):

Three lessons from Ruth 3:18:

1. Be patient
2. Be connected with trustworthy people
3. Be willing to allow God to complete His work in your life

More Parkerisms and Turnerisms

Having two sons, 10 and 7, means we have lots of fun conversations in our home: Here are some more:

Here are a couple I missed from this spring/summer-

Upon coming in from mowing:
Parker: Daddy, I love how you smell when you come in from mowing.
Me: You mean lawn mower exhaust and wild onions.
Parker: Yes.
Me: One day soon, you'll get to experience it yourself.

While stuck inside during rainy days at the beach:
Turner: We've watched so much Austin and Ally (a Disney Channel comedy) that I don't even think it's funny anymore.

Great Quote Thursday

Around here, however, we don't look backwards for very long. We keep moving forward, opening up new doors and doing new things, because we are curious...and curiosity keeps leading us down new paths- Walt Disney

Point for the Day- Unexpected (#8)

From the teaching series, Unexpected (a look at the Book of Ruth):

A good reputation has great value- Ruth 2:10-12

Ruth's kind heart, humble spirit and diligent work ethic was quickly recognized in Bethlehem. Those were endearing qualities then...and now.

Point for the Day- Unexpected (#7)

From the teaching series, Unexpected (a look at the Book of Ruth):

First impressions matter- Ruth 2:7

When Naomi arrived at Boaz's field, she made a great first impression. She came humbly and worked diligently. And people took notice, because first impressions matter.

Point for the Day- Unexpected (#6)

From the teaching series, Unexpected (a look at the Book of Ruth):

If you lead, lead well- Ruth 2:1; 4

When a man (or person) of standing loves the Lord and lives to represent Him well, they will lead well.

More Parkerisms and Turnerisms (Thanksgiving Edition)

Having two sons, 10 and 7, means we have lots of fun conversations in our home. Here are some more:

As we began to eat our Thanksgiving dinner-
Turner: This turkey sure is good.
Me: Yes, it is.
Nana: Nice job, Tonya.
Tonya: Thank you.
Turner: Hey, who killed the turkey?

While eating dinner-
Parker: I like the slick meat.
Me: What?
Granna: He means the dark meat.
Parker: Yeah. I like it better than the rough meat.
Me: The white meat?
Parker: Yeah.

During dinner, the topic of hunting came up (again)-
Parker: Do you hunt, Uncle Mike?
Mike: No. Have you ever been hunting Parker?
Parker: No. I step on the occasional bug. But, no I have never been hunting.

Great Quote Thursday

Organizations that can bring humanity and flexibility to their interactions with other human beings will thrive- Seth Godin (Linchpin, page 61).

Point for the Day- Unexpected (#5)

From the teaching series, Unexpected (a look at the Book of Ruth):

You can always go home (and when you do, life is better)- Ruth 1:22

Sometimes home is a physical location. Like coming back to Knoxville for Thanksgiving or Christmas.

Sometimes home is family. Wherever your spouse and children are or where your parents are, even if it's not where you grew up, that's home.

Sometimes home is going back to where God wants you to be. Jesus shared a beautiful story about returning home in Luke 15:11-32.

And in your relationship with God, you can always go home.

Point for the Day- Unexpected (#4)

From the teaching series, Unexpected (a look at the Book of Ruth):

Prepare for the unexpected; for the future- Ruth 1:3-5

Unexpected things happen in life. When the family left Bethlehem, they never anticipated that Naomi would mourn the loss of her husband and two sons in Moab.  But you can always expect the unexpected.

While you can't control the future, you can do your best to prepare for it. Life insurance, accessible savings and keeping debt to a minimum are all steps to help prepare for the unexpected.

Point for the Day- Unexpected (#3)

From the teaching series, Unexpected (a look at the Book of Ruth):

It's never best to live with the enemy- Ruth 1:2

Elimelech took his family to Moab, enemy territory, to avoid a famine. He probably never planned to stay. But he did. He settled there.

Many times, we find ourselves in places we thought we'd never be. We head down a path and realize it's no place to stay. But we settle. In the land of the enemy.

In the moment, Moab may seem appealing. But it's never best to live with the enemy.

Point for the Day- Unexpected (#2)

From the teaching series, Unexpected (a look at the Book of Ruth):

Husbands, be careful where you lead your family (Ruth 1:1).

Moab was an enemy of the Hebrew nation. But because of a famine in Judah, it seemed like a better option to Elimelech. Away from God and His people is no place to take your family.

Point for the Day- Unexpected

From the teaching series, Unexpected (a look at the Book of Ruth)

Leadership matters (Judges 21:25).

In every context, be it home, work or government, in the absence of leadership, chaos will ensue. Because we all look to leadership for direction. However, seeing none, we'll make our own way. And due to our sinful, selfish nature, doing "what is right" in our own eyes will often lead us away from God.

Who you follow matters. Leadership matters.

Point for the Day- Seasons of Marriage (Winter #5)

How long a couple has been married does not necessarily determine the season their marriage is in. Some couples have been married less than a year but are already headed toward Winter. By contrast, other couples have been married for decades and are still enjoying Summer.

When Winter is on its way...or already here:

The couple must know there's a point of no return- Genesis 3:22-24
At some point, with no repentance, it can never be like it was.

More Parkerisms and Turnerisms

Having two sons, 10 and 7, means we have lots of fun conversations in our home. Here are some more:

Turner: Daddy, did you enjoy working on the computer when you were in elementary school?
Me: We didn't have computers in my elementary school.
Turner: Did you have iPads?
Me: No. We didn't have those either.
Turner: Did you have pencils?
Me: Um...yes.

Me: Parker, where did you get that mud that's all over your knee?
Parker: Outside.
Me: Right

While trying to get the hiccups to stop:
Turner: I keep hiccing up.

Point for the Day- Seasons of Marriage (Winter #4)

How long a couple has been married does not necessarily determine the season their marriage is in. Some couples have been married less than a year but are already headed toward Winter. By contrast, other couples have been married for decades and are still enjoying Summer.

When Winter is on its way...or already here:

The couple should remember God's love- v. 21
God making coverings for Adam and Eve is the first reference to salvation in Scripture.

Even when we sin, even when we disappoint Him, God still loves us.

Great Quote Thursday

Forgiveness isn't an event. Forgiveness is a process you have to work at every day- Don Wilson

Point for the Day- Seasons of Marriage (Winter #3)

How long a couple has been married does not necessarily determine the season their marriage is in. Some couples have been married less than a year but are already headed toward Winter, By contrast, other couples have been married for decades and are still enjoying Summer.

When Winter is on its way...or already here:

The couple can expect God to address their sin- Genesis 3:14-19
Sin brings consequences. As a result of the first sin, Satan's demise was declared; Eve would suffer in bearing children; and Adam would be required to work.

God won't let sin go unpunished. His perfect and holy nature cannot allow it. And that is why Jesus came, lived, was crucified, buried and rose again. And take the punishment for our sin.

Point for the Day- Seasons of Marriage (Winter #2)

How long a couple has been married does not necessarily determine the season their marriage is in. Some couples have been married less than a year but are already headed toward Winter. By contrast, other couples have been married for decades and are still enjoying Summer.

When Winter is on its way...or already here:

The couple begins the blame game- Genesis 3:12,13
Taking responsibility for your own actions is crucial in a healthy relationship. Blaming others never leads to conflict resolution.

Point for the Day

God always answers a prayer of repentance (Judges 16:28).

Point for the Day- Seasons of Marriage (Winter)

How long a couple has been married does not necessarily determine the season their marriage is in. Some couples have been married less than a year but are already headed toward Winter. By contrast, other couples have been married for decades and are still enjoying Summer.

When Winter is on its way...or already here:

The couple runs from God- Genesis 3:9-11
Adam attempted to hide from God, the same God with whom he'd had a great relationship prior to his sin. Adam knew he'd caused a fracture in his relationship with God and God sought him out.

When a husband or wife (or couple) hides from accountability and shows a lack of willingness to deal with the issues at hand, there's a coldness in their heart.

Point for the Day

When God's man (or woman) fails, the enemy rejoices (Judges 16:24). Live wisely.

Point for the Day

Even at our lowest point, God loves us (Judges 16:22).

When Samson was bald (from being shaven), blind (his eyes gouged out by the Philistines) and bound (forced to grind grain like an ox), God allowed his hair to begin to grow back.

God still loved Samson.

Great Quote Thursday

Read. The expenditure of words without the income of ideas will lead to conceptual bankruptcy. You have to keep having ideas coming in- Ravi Zacharias

Point for the Day

This post marks the 175th blog post of 2014. Not a big deal really to anyone but me. But this post, #175, marks the most I've ever posted in a given year since beginning this blog in January 2009.

Two things about this post that make me glad:
1. I'm glad I've had the diligence to record my ideas, thoughts and notes here (if only for mostly myself).
2. I'm glad my wife Tonya encouraged me to begin this process in this first place. Thank you Tonya.

Which is a great reminder (Here's The Point) that diligence combined with encouragement makes for a productive combination.

Point for the Day

Guard your heart (Judges 16:18).

Point for the Day

Three mistakes Samson made in Judges 16:

He trusted the wrong person- v. 4
He toyed with sin- v. 7-14
He took God's blessing for granted- v. 20

Point for the Day

It's possible to look like you honor God and not live like you honor God (Judges 16:17).

Point for the Day

Lessons on Leadership from Judges 15

A Leader should:

1. Have integrity- v. 1
2. Take responsibility for his/her actions- v. 3
3. Positively impact others- v. 6
4. Receive wise counsel- v. 11
5. Honor God...at all times- v. 18

Point for the Day

God uses flawed people (Judges 15:20).

Making Music

Our younger son, Turner, who is 7, began taking piano lessons about 3 months ago. Neither my wife Tonya nor I play any musical instrument so we are excited about this opportunity for him.

Last Sunday, Turner participated in his first-ever piano recital. He did well and was pleased with his performance (though watching him bow to the audience before and following the playing of his piece of music made us all smile- 7 year old boys in East Tennessee don't bow a lot).

As you would expect, the first-year students like Turner played basic pieces such as the piece he played, Bamboo Leaves. But as the recital went along, the level of skill increased dramatically as those with several years of experience played intricate pieces from memory.  I sat watching and thinking that the ability to play piano was as unknown to me as molecular biology or quantum physics. Just way beyond my understanding. And also that some 4 year-olds were better musicians than me.

But one thing I picked up on quickly, some people were playing notes while others were making music.

Here's The Point: 
For the students who had put in the time to practice and memorize the notes, the playing of those individual notes had become melodic. It had become to them a piece of music and not notes on a page.

Much like life. Our individual daily experiences may not seem all that impressive as singular events but the collection of our daily moments, over time, becomes our life.

And just like at the recital when effort and care are invested, individual moments over time become a performance...of a lifetime.

Great Quote Thursday

It's hard to beat a person who never gives up- Babe Ruth

Point for the Day

When things don't turn out the way you planned, emotions can run high. (Judges 14:10-20)

Check your maturity- v. 12
Check your priorities- v. 16
Check your speech- v. 18
Check your anger- v. 19

Point for the Day

Samson was headed down a path toward destruction. In Judges 14, we see the beginning of his downfall. But we also can learn from his mistakes. Here are three steps to stay on course:

1. Guard your eyes- v. 1
2. Guard your ego- v. 2-9
3. Guard your emotions- v. 10-20

Point for the Day

Make memories. Every day. (Psalm 118:24)

Great Quote Thursday

It is hard to fail, but it is worse to never have tried to succeed- Theodore Roosevelt

World Series Prediction

The Kansas City Royals haven't been in the World Series since 1985. The San Francisco Giants seem to be there every other year.

The Royals must truly be surprised to be here but have swept their way through the playoffs. The Giants are a veteran team with lots of postseason experience and postseason expectations.

The Royals, having proven unbeatable in this postseason, have enjoyed several games filled with come from behind, late-inning heroics and have momentum on their side. The Giants continue to do what they do, combining outstanding starting pitching with timely hitting.

I'd love for the underdog to pull this one out. I'd love for this Cinderella story to have a happy ending. But while Cinderella teams make for great stories, they don't often win the World Series.

Giants in 6 games

Great Quote Thursday

Be more concerned with your character than your reputation, because your character is what you really are, while your reputation is merely what others think you are- John Wooden

Predictions- League Championship Series

And then there were four.

American League
Baltimore Orioles vs. Kansas City Royals
The Orioles have played great all season and ran away with the AL East. The Royals continue to defy expectations. A series win by Kansas City would be great for baseball but Baltimore just seems to be in the midst of a special season.
Orioles in 5 games

National League
San Francisco Giants vs. St. Louis Cardinals
Two of the most successful teams in the past decade battle it out to see who will represent the National League in the World Series. St. Louis is consistently in the postseason and can't be overlooked. But the Giants, when they make the postseason, somehow seemingly always find a way to advance.
Giants in 6 games

So while a mid-America World Series is a possibility, I'm thinking it will be an east coast/west coast affair for the championship.

Great Quote Thursday

Talent is God-given. Be humble.
Fame is man-given. Be grateful.
Conceit is self-given. Be careful.
John Wooden

Point for the Day

I thank God every day for His mercy, grace and forgiveness. But "thank you" seems so small compared to His great sacrifice.

A Day to Remember

Five years ago today, Parker gave his life to Christ. So thankful for this day in Parker's history...and eternity.

Seven Strategies to Enhance the Seasons of Your Marriage (from Gary Chapman)

In his book The Four Seasons of Marriage, Gary Chapman outlines seven strategies couples can use to move their marriage forward to a better season:

1. Deal with past failures
2. Choose a winning attitude
3. Learn to speak your spouse's love language
4. Develop the awesome power of empathetic listening
5. Discover the joy of helping your spouse succeed
6. Maximize your differences
7. Implement the power of positive influence

Major League Baseball Divisional Series Projections

With the Wild Card games completed, we're down to 4 teams in each league.

American League
Kansas City Royals vs. Los Angeles Angels
The Royals are the feel good story remaining in the postseason. The Angels finished with the best regular season record in the majors. Kansas City is happy to still be active at this point. The Angels have higher aspirations.
Angels in 4

Detroit Tigers vs. Baltimore Orioles
The Tigers are consistently in the postseason. The Orioles cruised through the AL East this season. Detroit has a strong starting pitching rotation but Baltimore seems to be on track for a memorable season.
Orioles in 5

National League
San Francisco Giants vs. Washington Nationals
Lots of great starting pitching on both teams. The Nationals had the best record in the National League but the Giants are playoff-battle tested.
Giants in 4

St. Louis Cardinals vs. Los Angeles Dodgers
The Cardinals are often referred to as a model organization. The Dodgers have spent tons of money to add talent in recent years. These are two iconic franchises with great playoff histories. If the Dodgers bats don't go silent, home field advantage may be the difference.
Dodgers in 5

Great Quote Thursday

God is awesome. He doesn't need you to be awesome; He needs you to be obedient- Matt Chandler

More Parkerisms and Turnerisms

Having two sons, 10 and 7, means we have lots of fun conversations in our home. Here are some more:

After Field Day (back in May)-
Me: Parker, what ribbons did you bring home today? A blue and a white?
Parker: I got 3. One blue, one red, one white.
Me: What did you get the red one for?
Parker: Second.
Me: Right, I meant what event.

Turner: (Answering a question) Hello?
Me: Turner, you sounded kind of sassy when you said "Hello" like that?
Turner: Is that good or bad?

Great Quote Thursday

Positive choices lead to positive actions that result in positive feelings- Gary Chapman

More Parkerisms and Turnerisms

Having two sons, 10 and 7, means we have lots of fun conversations in our home. Here are some more:

I'd parked my car in the driveway but needed to pull it into the garage-
Turner: Can I ride with you Daddy?
Me: Just to pull it in?
Turner: Yes.
Me: Okay, come on. Hey, do you want to sit in the front seat, without your booster seat, just to pull in?
Turner: How about I sit in the driver's seat...because I can drive this baby?
Me: No.

On the way out the door to school-
Tonya: You need to do something about your hair.
Parker: I did. I slept on it.

Great Quote Thursday

I used to be afraid of failing at something that really mattered to me; but now I'm more afraid of succeeding at things that don't matter- Bob Goff

Point for the Day

When God speaks, we'd do well to recognize, react and respond to His voice.

Point for the Day

With God, there's always a reason why.

More Parkerisms and Turnerisms

Raising two sons, 10 and 7, means we have lots of fun conversations in our home. Here are some more:

Turner: If I were a word, I'd want to be a long word.

One I missed from this spring-
I had just mowed early in the season and the next morning there was an outbreak of dandelions in our front yard. This conversation occurred on our way to school that morning-
Parker: It looks like it snowed dandelions in our yard last night.
Then as we prayed for the day on the way to school-
Parker: "...and I pray that the dandelions will go away in the rain..."
To which Turner then added in his prayer-
Turner: "...and that the dandelions will go into other yards and make lots of yellow flowers".

Great Quote Thursday

Don't consider a delay in God's promise a deletion of His promise- Chuck Swindoll

More Parkerisms and Turnerisms

Raising two sons, 10 and 7, means we have lots of fun conversations in our home. Here are some more:

Me: You guys need a haircut. You're starting to look a little shaggy.
Parker: I like my hair.
Me: But I thought you liked your hair to be cut short like mine. I don't mean the bald spots.
Parker: I wish I had hair like yours. I'd like for people to see more of my head.

Discussing sin and forgiveness-
Tonya: Turner, what are your sins?
Turner: I've done a lot of them. I can't name them all.

Turner: If you can whistle while you yawn, you should be on TV.

Great Quote Thursday

Yesterday's remarkable is today's really good and tomorrow's mediocre- Seth Godin

Point for the Day- Seasons of Marriage (Fall #6)

How long a couple has been married does not necessarily determine the season their marriage is in. Some couples have been married less than a year but are already headed toward Winter. By contrast, other couples have been married for decades and are still enjoying Summer. 

When Fall is on its way...or already here:

Couples experience a distance (of their own making) between them and God- Genesis 3:7, 8

When a couple is out of fellowship with God, they run or hide from Him. This only leads to Winter in their marriage.

Point for the Day- Seasons of Marriage (Fall #5)

How long a couple has been married does not necessarily determine the season their marriage is in. Some couples have been married less than a year but are already headed toward Winter. By contrast, other couples have been married for decades and are still enjoying Summer. 

When Fall is on its way...or already here:

Couples begin to do things they'd never do- Genesis 3:6

When you find yourself considering things that you once said you'd never do, you're headed for trouble. When you're open to things you used to deem as questionable, you're headed for a fall. 

Point for the Day- Seasons of Marriage (Fall #4)

How long a couple has been married does not necessarily determine the season their marriage is in. Some couples have been married less than a year but are already headed toward Winter. By contrast, other couples have been married for decades and are still enjoying Summer.

When Fall is on its way...or already here:

Couples begin to question what they used to know- Genesis 3:5

God had always provided His best for Adam and Eve. But they were willing to question His care for them. They knew better but were willing to leave that door cracked ever so slightly. It led to their fall.

More Parkerisms and Turnerisms

Raising two sons, 10 and 7, means we have lots of fun conversations in our home. Here are some more:

Turner: I know a lot more in my head than what comes out of my mouth.

While driving to a wedding this summer-
Parker: Daddy, are those sunglasses too small for you or is your head too big?

During this summer's World Cup competition after Nigeria scored the equalizer to tie Argentina-
Turner: Nigeria's got something in their blood. It's passion!

Great Quote Thursday

Let your words be the genuine picture of your heart- John Wesley

More Parkerisms and Turnerisms

Raising two sons, 10 and 7, means we have lots of fun conversations in our home. Here are some more:

At a Tennessee Smokies baseball game (during an in-game promotion)-
Parker: Why do they always pick people from the blue seats?
Me: Those seats cost more.
Parker: That doesn't seem fair.
Me: They're just taking care of the fans who pay more.
Parker: That seems like segregation.

Jumping in the pool earlier this summer-
Turner: I'm doing this for my family. Remember me.

Tonya: Parker, do you want a peach?
Parker: A peach what?
Tonya: A peach. Like...a peach

Turner: Can I have more dessert?
Tonya: I don't think that's a good idea. What do you think Greg?
Me: I think that's probably a bad idea.
Turner: You're married. You have to agree on everything.

Great Quote Thursday

My father gave me the greatest gift anyone could give another person. He believed in me- Jim Valvano

Point for the Day- Seasons of Marriage (Fall #3)

How long a couple has been married does not necessarily determine the season their marriage is in. Some couples have been married less than a year but are already headed toward Winter. By contrast, other couples have been married for decades and are still enjoying Summer.

When Fall is on its way...or already here:

Couples begin to listen to other voices- Genesis 3:4

Some voices are voices of encouragement. Listen to those.

Some voices are the voices of snakes. Run from those.

Point for the Day- Seasons of Marriage (Fall #2)

How long a couple has been married does not necessarily determine the season their marriage is in. Some couples have been married for less than a year but are already headed toward Winter. By contrast, other couples have been married for decades and are still enjoying summer.

When Fall is on its way...or already here:

Couples experience poor communication- Genesis 3:2,3

Eve shared (with the serpent) information from God that Adam had shared with her. Except what Eve was told, or what Eve understood Adam to say, was not what God had said (Genesis 2:15-17).

Every couple will experience communication issues from time to time. But details matter. Especially when it comes to what "God said". 

Point for the Day- Seasons of Marriage (Fall)

How long a couple has been married does not necessarily determine the season their marriage is in. Some couples have been married less than a year but are already headed toward Winter. By contrast, other couples have been married for decades and are still enjoying Summer.

When Fall is on its way...or already here:

Couples experience a distance between themselves- Genesis 3:1

Think about it. Where was Adam? There was no one else to talk to yet he was not with his wife. For one or both of them, something else had become a priority.

A couple doesn't need to always be together but when they begin to plan (and enjoy) time apart, they're headed for trouble.

Great Quote Thursday

I don't consider myself an elite superstar player by any means. I've always tried to be an elite teammate though. Like a really, really good teammate. If you're going to build a team, you'd want me to be on it- Kyle Korver, Atlanta Hawks

Point for the Day

How should you help your friend meet Jesus? By doing whatever it takes (Mark 2:4).

Point for the Day

Why should you help your friend meet Jesus? Because Jesus is amazing (Mark 2:12).

Point for the Day

Why should you help your friend meet Jesus? Because Jesus can handle any situation (Mark 2:6-11).

Great Quote Thursday

When a man dies, if he can pass enthusiasm along to his children, he has left them an estate of incalculable value- Thomas Edison

Point for the Day

Why should you help your friend meet Jesus? Because Jesus heals and forgives (Mark 2:5).

Point for the Day

When should you help your friend meet Jesus? When you know your friend has a need (Mark 2:3).

Point for the Day

Those closest to Jesus knew what others didn't (Luke 10:22)...and still can.

Great Quote Thursday

One living sermon is worth a hundred explanations- Robert Coleman

Point for the Day

There's more history today than there's ever been. Be even more tomorrow.

Great Quote Thursday

God created man out of nothing, and as long as we are nothing, He can make something out of us- Martin Luther

Point for the Day

Some people can play a piano.
Some people can tune a piano.
Some people can move a piano.
Know who you are. Be good at that.

Point for the Day

Giving minimal effort and hoping for maximum return is often a recipe for failure.

Great Quote Thursday

However beautiful the strategy, occasionally we should look at the results- Winston Churchill

Point for the Day

Finish well (Numbers 20:12).

Point for the Day

Trust God, not yourself (Numbers 20:10).

Point for the Day

Disobedience shortened Moses' life (Deuteronomy 34:7).

Great Quote Thursday

Never confuse what you do with who you are- Tony Dungy

Point for the Day

When God speaks, listen closely (Numbers 20:8).

Point for the Day

Disobedience carries consequences (Deuteronomy 34:4).

Turner is 7 Today!

Hard to believe it's been 7 years since Turner was born and completed our family. We are blessed by him everyday.

Happy Birthday Turner! Daddy loves you.

Great Quote Thursday

Be intentional about praising and encouraging your son or daughter every opportunity you get- Mark Merrill

Point for the Day

Think short-term. Think long-term. Think legacy.

Point for the Day

God allows circumstances, but we always have choices.

Point for the Day

Short-term decisions have long-term consequences.

Great Quote Thursday

Busyness does not mean you are a faithful or fruitful Christian (Kevin DeYoung, Crazy Busy; page 32).

Point for the Day

God's plan may not always make sense to us, but God's plan is always perfect for us (Exodus 14:1-3).

Point for the Day

God always provides for His people (Exodus 13:21).

Point for the Day

When times get tough, be very careful which voices you listen to (Exodus 14:10-12).

Point for the Day

When you're all in with God, there is confidence and peace (Exodus 14:13).

Point for the Day

When stepping out on faith, expect opposition (Exodus 13: 17).

Great Quote Thursday

Confidence is contagious. So is lack of confidence- Vince Lombardi

Exponential Conference Notes- Brian and Amy Bloye

I recently attended the Exponential Conference in Orlando, Florida. The conference was comprised of several main sessions as well as several breakout sessions. Brian Bloye and his wife Amy led a breakout session for couples in ministry to encourage them as they serve together. Brian serves as the Pastor of West Ridge Church in Dallas. Georgia.

They offered several points to help couples maintain their focus and balance as they serve in ministry:

1. The journey must involve 3 persons: you, spouse, Jesus
Pray together; encourage one another; you can't find your significance in your spouse

2. Learn to create margin
When everything is planned out, it makes it harder for God to "pop in" and surprise us

3. Cheat in the right places
Never cheat your family; you will cheat somewhere, you can't truly do it all

4. Learn to say "No"
Do what is important, not just what seems urgent; you can't do everything; you can't please everyone; you can't be great at everything; turn off the voices that don't matter; say "no" in a gracious way; always listen to your wife, she will always have your best interest in mind; guard your family during times of criticism, circle the wagons

5. Put solid boundaries around your marriage
Never alone with opposite sex; be careful who and how you counsel

6. Set healthy expectations for yourself and your children
We don't have to earn God's approval. Jesus took care of that; sometimes, enough really is enough

7. Learn what fills your emotional tanks and keep them full
Don't be afraid to engage a counselor

8. Focus on a few good friendships
Naturally occurring friendships seem to work the best; there is no need to force a friendship; pray that God will provide good friendships; not every friendship has to be deep down but you need one or two

9. Create a healthy rhythm for doing life together
Make healthiness (spiritual, emotional, physical) a part of your lifestyle

Point for the Day

Who can speak truth to you? Who truly cares for you and only wants the best for you? (Exodus 18: 17)

Point for the Day

Everyone needs someone they can talk to (Exodus 18:7, 8).

Point for the Day

Invest in someone in whom you will likely never see the return (Exodus 2:10)

Great Quote Thursday

Every father should remember one day his son will follow his example, not his advice- Charles Kettering

Point for the Day

Saying "thank you" is quite endearing yet requires such little effort

Point for the Day

Looking like you know what you're doing is sometimes half of the battle

Point for the Day

Love all you can while you can (Exodus 2:10)

Point for the Day

It's amazing what can be accomplished when you begin by simply asking nicely.

Point for the Day

When sharing your story, point people to Jesus (Acts 26:23).

Great Quote Thursday

Nobody who ever gave his best regretted it- George Halas

Point for the Day

The example from the Apostle Paul on sharing your story: How I used to be; How I met Jesus; How I am now (Acts 26:1-23).

Point for the Day

The longer you stay at the base of the mountain, the taller the mountain looks. Start climbing.

Exponential Conference Notes- Matt Chandler

Recently, I had the opportunity to attend the Exponential Conference in Orlando, Florida. Here are some of my notes from a session with Matt Chandler:

You can motivate. You cannot transform.

Trust the word of God. It's worked for thousands of years.

If you waver from Biblical doctrine, you'll have nothing to save people to because you'll have nothing to save people from.

NBA Conference Finals Predictions

And then there were 4. And they are the top two seeds in each conference. Here are my predictions:

Eastern Conference
(1) Indiana Pacers vs. (2) Miami Heat
The Pacers struggled down the stretch but have escaped the first two rounds of the playoffs. They give the Heat trouble much of the time, but this is the Eastern Conference Final.
Miami has cruised through these playoffs. But home-court advantage, and a Game 7 if necessary, will be played in Indianapolis.
Can Roy Hibbert continue his resurgence? Does Paul George continue his emergence? Can the Heat continue their path toward a 3-peat?
Heat in 6

Western Conference
(1) San Antonio Spurs vs. (2) Oklahoma City Thunder
Serge Ibaka is out for the remainder of the playoffs after suffering an injury against the Clippers in Round Two. His absence will hurt the Thunder's chances. Kevin Durant is the NBA MVP but he can't defend and rebound for Ibaka. Nick Collison will step into the void and Steven Adams will now play a much larger role.
The Spurs continue to try to redeem last year's Finals collapse. Tony Parker will play in this series following an injury in Round Two against Portland.This is classic battle of a veteran team against a rising young team.
Can the Thunder overcome the loss of Ibaka? Can the Spurs "old dog" trio of Tim Duncan/Manu Ginobili/Tony Parker continue to cheat time?
Spurs in 7 (because Ibaka's out)

Exponential Conference Notes- Andy Stanley

Recently, I had the opportunity to attend the Exponential Conference in Orlando, Florida. Here are some of my notes from a session with Andy Stanley:

Watch yourself preach. You'll either quit or get better. Some people say, "But I don't like to watch myself preach". You may not be the only one.

If you listen to the same person preach for a long time, you start to sound like them. Listen broadly.

People aren't on a truth quest. They're on a happiness quest.

If you don't care what people do with what you say, you don't care about people.

You don't preach just to make a point, you preach to make a difference.

Exponential Conference Notes- Robert Coleman

Recently, I had the opportunity to attend the Exponential Conference in Orlando, Florida. Here are some of my notes from a session with Robert Coleman:

Matthew 28: 18-20, the Great Commission, is God's plan to redeem the world for His glory.

8 Fundamental Principles in Jesus' Lifestyle:
1. Incarnation- Become a servant
Serving others brings opportunities to disciple; find where people hurt and need help (a shepherd goes after lost sheep)
2. Selection- Look for disciples
Notice receptive people around you; concentrate on a few serious leaders
3. Association- Build a relationship
Seek ways for casual fellowship; arrange times for prayer and study of the Bible; occasionally have extended periods of reflection together
4. Consecration- Teach obedience
Stress the outworking of faith; follow the way of the cross
5. Demonstration- Lead by example
Let them see your priorities and values lived; take them with you in ministry
6. Delegation- Involve in ministry
Make reasonable assignments; utilize their gifts and talents; give more demanding tasks as they grow in grace and knowledge
7. Supervision- Monitor their progress
Have frequent times of review; work on attitudes and character traits; affirm strengths and self-worth
8. Multiplication- Expect reproduction
Followers become like their leader; develop the vision of the coming kingdom; dream with them about their role in the harvest

Great Quote Thursday

If discipleship doesn't lead to multiplication and reproduction, it's not really discipleship- Robert Coleman

Point for the Day

Have questions about the future? Jesus says, "Trust Me" (Acts 1:7).

Point for the Day

Since we've not reached the "end of the age", the Great Commission is still in effect (Matthew 28:18-20).

Exponential Pre-Conference Notes (Continued)

Last week I attended the Exponential Conference in Orlando, Florida. Here are some of my notes from the Pre-Conference Discipleship track led by Discipleship.org:

Jim Putman
The win is disciples not converts.
Need to go deeper? Feed yourself.
Lots of guys are great speakers and can draw a crowd but they can't make disciples who make disciples.
5 levels of spiritual growth:
1. Spiritually dead (unbelief)
2. Spiritual infant (ignorance; they just don't know)
3. Spiritual child (never confuse number of years with maturity)
4. Spiritual young adult (focusing on God and others; serving)
5. Spiritual adult (a disciple maker)

Bobby Harrington
Discipleship must multiply or there is a failure to launch.
If we're not making spiritual adults, we're likely not making disciples.
Discipleship is not biblical without an emphasis on multiplication.
By not multiplying and reproducing, we embarrass Jesus.
How does the Jesus I believe in and the Gospel I preach determine the person I am and the disciples I make?

Robert Coleman
If discipleship doesn't lead to multiplication and reproduction, it's not really discipleship.

Exponential Pre-Conference Notes

Last week I attended the Exponential Conference in Orlando, Florida. Here are some of my notes from the Pre-Conference Discipleship track led by Discipleship.org:

Bill Hull-
Discipleship isn't about making disciples. Discipleship is about Jesus.

Jeff Vanderstelt-
The sacrifice of Christ redeemed my past, directs my present and secured my future.
We want people to not just believe a message but to submit to a Lord.
Everyone who is a Christian is a minister.

Robby Gallaty-
Knowing Christ leads to loving Christ leads to obeying Christ
Believing right leads to behaving right
Get into the Word until the Word gets into you
When people don't know what to do, they don't do anything at all.

More Parkerisms and Turnerisms

Raising two sons, 10 and 6, means we have lots of fun conversations in our home. Here are some more:

Me: Guys, how about Pop Tarts for breakfast?
Turner: You're learning.

While I was trimming bushes-
Parker: Daddy, I want to help now.
Me: Okay, sure.
Parker: But only for 5 or 10 minutes.
Me: I'll take it.

After he explained the difference between vowels and consonants-
Me: Wow, Turner! Did you learn all of this in first grade?
Turner: No, I just know it in my brain.

Great Quote Thursday

Are the things that you are living for worth Christ dying for? Oscar Muriu

Point for the Day

His resurrection proved Jesus is who He was (Luke 24:39-43).

Point for the Day

You'll be disappointed if you give up on Jesus too soon (Luke 24:21).

Point for the Day

Jesus' response to the doubters: Test Me. You can trust Me (John 20:27).

NBA Playoffs- Conference Semi-Finals

The NBA Playoffs continue tonight with the beginning of the conference semi-final match-ups. Here are my thoughts on each series:

Eastern Conference
(1) Indiana Pacers vs. (5) Washington Wizards
Indiana struggled down the stretch in the regular season and then struggled to eliminate the Atlanta Hawks in 7 games in Round One. Paul George must step up and Roy Hibbert must show up against the Wizards for the Pacers to advance.
Washington looked amazing in Round One against the Chicago Bulls. They had a strong inside/outside attack that was more impressive than at any time in the regular season.
There's a reason the Pacers were the #1 seed in the East but the Wizards are hot right now. Has Indiana righted the ship?
Pacers in 7  

(2) Miami Heat vs. (6) Brooklyn Nets
Miami wasted no time in dispensing the Charlotte Bobcats. 4 games, all business. Interestingly, Miami lost all 4 games against Brooklyn in the regular season.
Brooklyn played an extremely even Round One series against the Toronto Raptors. The series was not settled until under one second remained in Game 7.
Miami can coast at times in the regular season but this is the playoffs.
Heat in 6

Western Conference
(1) San Antonio Spurs vs. (5) Portland Trailblazers
San Antonio had the best record in the league during the regular season and then had to battle their in-state rival Dallas Mavericks for a full 7 games to advance. But in Game 7, they looked amazing.
Portland impressed in Round One with a young, powerful inside (LaMarcus Aldridge)/outside (Damian Lillard) attack that the Houston Rockets could never solve.
Until proven wrong, go with the future hall of famers.
Spurs in 6

(2) Oklahoma City Thunder vs. (3) Los Angeles Clippers
Oklahoma City consistently struggles to match-up against their Round One opponent Memphis Grizzlies. After escaping in 7 games, the blueprint to defeat the Thunder is out there: great defense and a solid half-court game.
Los Angeles (aka Lob City) is exciting to watch. Chris Paul directs a team as well as anyone, Blake Griffin can jump out of the building and they have a deep bench. But they're not the best defensive team.
This should be the best series in the conference semi-finals but Kevin Durant is the MVP for a reason.
Thunder in 7

Great Quote Thursday

What comes to mind when we think about God is the most important thing about us- A.W. Tozer

Point for the Day

When you don't know what to do next, do what you know to do now.

Point for the Day

Teach and show. The process of discipleship as outlined in the Old Testament (Exodus 18:20).

Point for the Day

Comparing yourself to others is of no benefit. Completely trusting Jesus is (John 21:22).

Point for the Day

Details matter (John 21:11)

More Parkerisms and Turnerisms

Raising two sons, 10 and 6, means we have lots of fun conversations in our home. Here are some more:

At a basketball game (after dinner)-
Turner: Smelling that yummy hot dog tells me I need to eat something else.

Parker: Mango (pronouncing it man go), that's an interesting name for a food.

Turner: I'll remember this day forever. Or at least until I die.

Great Quote Thursday

At times, we don't need more instruction. We need more compassion. Others need it too. Be an encourager today- Charles Swindoll

NBA Playoffs- First Round Predictions

The NBA Playoffs tip-off today. With 16 teams making the Playoffs, there are 8 first-round match-ups. Here are my thoughts on the first-round:

Western Conference
(1) San Antonio Spurs vs. (8) Dallas Mavericks
The Spurs have aged well over time and have had another impressive regular season. They are healthy heading into the playoffs. Dallas fought its way into the 8th slot in the West. Dirk Nowitzki will go off in at least one game but the combination of Tim Duncan/Manu Ginobili/Tony Parker really want to atone for last season's collapse in the Finals.
Spurs in 5

(2) Oklahoma City Thunder vs. (7) Memphis Grizzlies
The Thunder have Russell Westbrook for this year's playoffs. That matters. Nobody wants to play the grit and grind Grizzlies. But Kevin Durant should be the league MVP and he will take over games as necessary. This should be a great series.
Thunder in 7

(3) Los Angeles Clippers vs. (6) Golden State Warriors
Lob City with Chris Paul, Blake Griffin and Deandre Jordan of the Clippers versus the outside bombing of Stephen Curry and crew with the Warriors. These two teams don't like each other but the loss of Andrew Bogut to injury really hurts Golden State's inside game.
Clippers in 6

(4) Houston Rockets vs. (5) Portland Trailblazers
This should be a scorefest. Portland started the regular season on fire but cooled off after the All-Star break before finishing strong. Dwight Howard and James Harden are a potent inside/outside combination. This could be the best series of Round One.
Rockets in 6

Eastern Conference
(1) Indiana Pacers vs. (8) Atlanta Hawks
Indiana was the top team in the NBA for most of the season, trying to earn the number one seed in the East. But the Pacers limped home the last two months of the season. That the Hawks even qualified for the playoffs would be impressive enough with the roster they have but it's quite amazing considering Al Horford was lost for the season early-on. Atlanta plays hard and surprises at times but Indiana plays better now that CJ Watson is back in the lineup following a return from injury. This should be a hard fought series and closer than a 1 vs. 8 pairing might suggest.
Pacers in 6

(2) Miami Heat vs. (7) Charlotte Bobcats
The Bobcats made the playoffs. That's impressive. Al Jefferson is legit. But LeBron James and the Heat don't want to waste energy on an early round match-up.
Heat in 4

(3) Toronto Raptors vs. (6) Brooklyn Nets
The Raptors return to the playoffs after several years in the lottery. The Nets have several seasoned veterans (Kevin Garnett/Paul Pierce/Joe Johnson) with tons of playoff experience. Experience moves on.
Nets in 6

(4) Chicago Bulls vs. (5) Washington Wizards
The Bulls can play defense but they struggle to score. Joakim Noah has stepped up his game with the loss of Derrick Rose for another season. The Wizards' roster consists of lots of former lottery picks with little playoff experience. Coach Tom Thibodeau and the Bulls won't play around.
Bulls in 5

More Parkerisms and Turnerisms

Raising two sons, 10 and 6, means we have lots of fun conversations in our home. Here are some more:

Turner (turning off the TV and walking out of the living room): I turned it off so it won't run down the batteries.
Parker (to me): I don't think he knows the TV doesn't run on batteries.

Turner: You are out of my mind. I mean, I don't know what you are talking about.

Parker: Why do they call it March Madness if it goes into April?

Point for the Day

This Friday is Good because Jesus is Lord.

Great Quote Thursday

Don't let ambition cloud your judgment and rob you of the opportunity to gain valuable life experience where you are- Charles Swindoll

Best Book Dedication Ever

From Not A Fan by Kyle Idleman-

To my Dad:
Following you taught me to follow Jesus

May my sons one day say the same of me.

Point for the Day

Jesus died alone so we would never have to be.

Point for the Day

Discouragement can lead to loneliness. But we are truly never alone. God always provides. (I Kings 19:15-18)

Point for the Day

We often look for the obvious. But when you are close to God, you can always hear His voice (I Kings 19: 11,12).

Point for the Day

When you fall into discouragement, get refreshed, then get up and get going (I Kings 19: 3-9).

Men's NCAA Championship Game Predictions

One Shining Moment will be played tonight shortly after a National Champion is crowned. Here's who we think will win tonight's big game:

Turner: Kentucky
Parker: Connecticut
Tonya: Connecticut
Greg: Kentucky

Final Four Predictions

As the NCAA Men's Basketball Tournament winds to a close, tonight's two games will determine who will play in Monday night's championship game. Here's who each of us think will win tonight:

Florida vs. Connecticut
Turner: Florida
Parker: Florida
Tonya: Florida
Greg: Florida

Wisconsin vs. Kentucky
Turner: Wisconsin
Parker: Kentucky
Tonya: Wisconsin
Greg: Wisconsin

Great Quote Thursday

If words spoken well are powerful, imagine the power of a life lived well- Chuck Swindoll

Point for the Day

When things seem desperate, trust that God is in control (I Kings 17:15, 16).

Point for the Day

When things seem desperate, let Godly people help you (I Kings 17:13, 14).

Point for the Day

When things seems desperate, don't give up. Do what you know to do (I Kings 17:12).

Point for the Day

Consistent obedience grows faith (I Kings 17:24).

Great Quote Thursday

It's about doing the right thing. Calling your Mom and Dad and telling them you love them. We are trying to win, but we are building men- University of Tennessee Men's Basketball Coach Cuonzo Martin

As We Reach the Sweet Sixteen

Our family completes round-by-round brackets each year for the NCAA Men's Basketball Tournament. At the end of the first three rounds, we've reached the Sweet Sixteen. Here are the current standings in our family brackets:

Parker: 41-11
Greg: 37-15
Tonya: 35-17
Turner: 34-18

With the 4-game lead Parker has, and with only 15 games remaining in the tournament, this competition is effectively over.

Point for the Day

Even when we disappoint God, He is still faithful to provide our future (Genesis 4:1,2; 25, 26).

Your Calling is Important

A man's gift makes room for him, and brings him before great men- Proverbs 18:16

With a genuine calling comes a settled assurance- Charles Swindoll

Love the calling you have, not the one you wish you had- Jud Wilhite

Point for the Day

Even when we disappoint God, He is still faithful to provide us our focus (Genesis 3:16-19).

Point for the Day

Even when we disappoint God, He is still faithful to provide forgiveness (Genesis 3:21).

NCAA Men's Basketball Tournament update

Our family completes brackets each year prior to the NCAA Men's Basketball Tournament. We follow two formats:
(1) a complete tournament bracket from beginning to end (the one that a North Dakota State or a Mercer busts); and
(2) a round-by-round updated version where we adjust our selections around the upsets

As Round 1 (4 games) and Round 2 (32 games) are now complete, here are the current standings:
Parker: 29-7
Greg: 26-10
Turner: 24-12
Tonya: 24-12

Fun on Friday- More Parkerisms and Turnerisms

Raising two sons, 10 and 6, means we have lots of fun conversations in our home. Here are some more:

Turner: Daddy, what's your biggest hope for the future?
Me: That you and Parker grow up and live for Jesus.
Turner: No, I mean like you and Mommy having a baby girl.
Me: No. I'm not thinking about that at all.
Turner: I don't mean like right now. I mean like in the future. Like later in 2014?
Me: No.

After his Dwyane Wade player on Wii basketball made a great play-
Parker: He got some lights on the highlight reel.

Tonya: Turner, you can sort of do it pretty well but it's really time for you to learn how to tie your shoes on your own. When you do, we'll get you a Lego set.
Turner: Just a Lego set?
Tonya: How about a pack of gum?
Turner: I'll take the Lego set.

Final Four Predictions

In what has quickly become an annual family tradition, as the NCAA Men's Basketball Tournament tips-off today, here are our family's Final Four predictions:

Turner
South: Kansas
East: Virginia
West: Oklahoma State
Midwest: Louisville

Parker
South: Florida
East: Virginia
West: Creighton
Midwest: Louisville

Tonya
South: Kansas
East: Michigan State
West: Wisconsin
Midwest: Louisville

Greg
South: Florida
East: Michigan State
West: Oklahoma State
Midwest: Louisville

In addition to our overall bracket, we also pick games round-by-round. I'll post updates about those selections here on the blog as well.

Great Quote Thursday

Emotions follow obedience- Don Wilson

Point for the Day

God always makes a way for His people (Genesis 12:13)

Point for the Day

If you want God to bless your future, you have to let Him be a part of the present.

Point for the Day

We may leave Jesus behind but He'll never leave us (Luke 2:43)

Fun on Friday- More Parkerisms and Turnerisms

Raising two sons, 10 and 6, means we have lots of fun conversations in our home. Here are a few more:

Turner: If I were President, everyone would have a pony and stickers would never be made. And everyone must eat 100 Oreos everyday. I'd get 101.

While driving by a house near their school-
Parker: Do they have a doghorse?
Me: A what?
Parker: A huge dog, because they have a really big fenced in yard.

While talking about football players-
Turner: Hey Daddy, where did BenJarvus Green-Ellis go to college and when was he drafted?
Me: Georgia, maybe? Second round? I'm not sure.
Parker: I think he went to Ole Miss.
Turner: I don't think he was drafted.
Me: Well, remind me and we'll look it up later.
Turner: Yeah, we can look it up on Pinterest.
Parker: Google. You mean look it up on Google.

Great Quote Thursday

NBA coach Mike Woodson on team building and effort:

I think, when you're trying to build a team, guys have got to understand it's not about who's getting all the shots. It's not about who's playing all the minutes. It's what you do with the minutes and what you're doing when you're in there.

Point for the Day

In those times when you don't hear God speaking directly to you, rely on what you know about Him (Matthew 11:4-6).

Fun on Friday- More Parkerisms and Turnerisms

Raising two sons, 10 and 6, means we have lots of fun conversations in our home. Here are some more:

While watching an episode of Tom and Jerry-
Turner: This says Mouse in Manhattan. It looks like New York.
Me: Actually, Manhattan is part of New York City. Just like there is Fountain City, South Knoxville or Turkey Creek. But it's all Knoxville.
Turner: Oh, okay. Thank you Daddy for telling me that but I have no idea what you are talking about.

While flipping through the channels during the recent Winter Olympics-
Me: Oh, here's some women's curling.
Parker: Who's playing?
Me: Canada versus Great Britain.
Parker: I'm for Canada.
Me: Why?
Turner: Because they're winning 6-3.

While playing in our back yard on a warm day last week-
Turner: Daddy, I've noticed you've not mowed the grass a lot lately.
Me: Well, it is only February.

Great Quote Thursday

A people that values its privileges above its principles soon loses both- Dwight Eisenhower

Point for the Day

By God's grace, Joseph was able to forgive his brothers (Genesis 42:25) many years before his brothers requested forgiveness (Genesis 50:18).

Point for the Day

Joseph didn't initiate reconciliation with his brothers. But God had prepared his heart to grant forgiveness when the opportunity came.

Point for the Day

Only after Joseph granted forgiveness to his brothers was his relationship with his father restored (Genesis 46:29). Forgiveness heals relationships.

Doing What You Can

This afternoon I had the privilege of speaking at the graveside service for an 86 year old friend of mine from church who passed away on Thursday. He was a World War II veteran. Sadly, there are fewer and fewer of those men still with us.

My friend had battled cancer and other health issues for some time. Through the years, even when his health was faltering, it was obvious he loved his wife and family, his country and his church. I had come to know him and his wife as he had served faithfully as an usher and greeter at Sevier Heights. But there was a story I shared about my friend today that I think succinctly captured who he was and how he lived:

A couple of years ago, I walked into our church's worship center for the first morning of Vacation Bible School. There, on the back row, sat my friend. In faltering health. In his early 80's. Wearing a multi-colored VBS shirt (over a long sleeved dress shirt).

Surprised to see him in that setting, and knowing he was not well, I said, "Well, good morning. I didn't know you were working VBS this year".

I'll never forget his reply: "I thought I would do what I could to help". Turns out he was going to help serve snacks to the children during their snack breaks that week.

"I thought I would do what I could to help". Wow!

Here's The Point: The world would be a much better place if each of us would simply do what we can to help and to serve others.

Point for the Day

Forgiveness isn't about feeling good. Forgiveness is about honoring God (Genesis 45:4-8).

Fun on Friday- More Parkerisms and Turnerisms

Raising two sons, 10 and 6, means we have lots of fun conversations in our home. Here are some more:

Parker: I don't know why anyone would want to play golf.
Turner: Yeah, who wants to hit a ball with a sword?
Parker: There's just not enough action.
Turner: Plus, they just get to wear caps and regular clothes.

After eating a turkey sandwich-
Parker: Turkeys have a chemical that makes you sleepy.
Me: Yes. I've heard that.
Parker: How do they live then?

After reading a book to me-
Me: Turner, did you learn all this in first grade?
Turner: No, I just know it from my brain.

Great Quote Thursday

Never mistake activity for achievement- John Wooden

Point for the Day

We often ask "What did I do wrong" when a better question would be "What is God doing in my life".

We think trouble when He is actually training us. We think punishment when He is ultimately preparing us.

The life of Joseph is a prime example (Genesis 40:15).

What I Will (and Won't) Miss About the Olympics

As the Sochi Winter Olympic Games come to a close tonight with the Closing Ceremonies, it's amazing to think that these highly-hyped competitions are already completed. Here are some things I'll miss (and won't miss) as the Games come to a close:

Things I'll Miss
1. Sliding sports (bobsled, luge, skeleton)- I've always enjoyed watching these events. The Olympics are one of the few times when you can find these events televised. Plus, outside of possibly curling, being on a bobsled push crew is my best opportunity to make an Olympic team: run and push a sled for 4 seconds and jump in for the ride. Pretty good gig if you can get it.

2. Curling- I don't understand the intricacies of the sport but watching how seriously people take sliding "stones" down the ice and then "sweeping" them into place makes for interesting TV.

3. Hockey- International hockey, with country vs. country competition and larger ice rinks is much more interesting than NHL hockey, while benefiting from the talents of the world's best, NHL players.

4. Athletes' stories- NBC's production of 3-5 minute biographical documentaries help viewers connect with the stories of interesting, sometimes inspiring, athletes. This Olympics, the stories of Canadian moguls athlete Alex Bilodeau and US skeleton athlete Noelle Pikus-Pace were particularly touching.

Things I Won't Miss
1. Doubles luge- Whoever came up with this idea? The only person I would participate in doubles luge with would be my wife.

2. Men's figure skating- Too many sequins. On men.

3. Daily updates on Vladimir Putin- NBC gave him the Where's Waldo treatment as they followed his every whereabouts around Sochi.

4. The time difference- Avoiding spoiler alerts or the ESPN ticker so I could watch a competition without knowing the event's outcome took some effort.

5. Staying up late- With nightly televised events, I found myself staying up unnecessarily late. Really, sleep would have been a better choice than ice dancing.

6. Bob Costas' eye- I felt sorry for the man. Could NBC have not brought in a physician to help the anchor of their world-class Olympic coverage?

Parker is 10 Today!

Hard to believe that ten years ago today (a decade!), Parker was born and our world changed forever. We are blessed by him everyday.

Happy Birthday Parker! Daddy loves you.

Fun on Friday- More Parkerisms and Turnerisms

Raising two sons, 9 and 6, means we have lots of fun conversations in our home. Here are some more:

Turner: What exactly is fantasy football? When you play football with a princess?

Parker: When I grow up and get married and become a Dad, I'm going to have two sons.
Me: Sounds good to me.
Parker: I'm going to name them Stephen Curry Williams and Kevin Durant Williams.
Me: Make sure to talk to your wife about that first.

Turner: When will we be there?
Me: In about an hour.
Turner: Waiting for an hour to pass is like looking for a golf ball that's fallen to the bottom of a big pile of trash.

At Subway (Parker's favorite) for lunch:
Me: Parker, what kind of sandwich do you want?
Parker: Cold cut combo on Italian bread.
Turner: Italian bread? They're going to think we're Italian.
Parker: No they won't.

Great Quote Thursday

It's often in the small things that no one sees that result in the big things that everyone wants- Craig Groeschel

Point for the Day

Be less concerned with your profession and more aware of your position: "The Lord was with Joseph, and he became a successful man" (Genesis 39:2) #whymeseries

Point for the Day

It's not about where you start, it's how you finish (Gen. 37:24 to Gen.41:40) #whymeseries

Point for the Day

It's not about what you do but who you are (Genesis 39:2) #whymeseries

Point for the Day

Scripture is always beautiful. But over the past several days, 2 Corinthians 1:3,4 has become especially meaningful.

Super Bowl Picks

Denver Broncos vs. Seattle Seahawks

Parker: Seahawks
Turner: Broncos
Tonya: Broncos
Greg: Broncos

Point for the Day

A selfless offer. A selfish choice. Man's worst chosen over God's best. Happened then, happens now. (Genesis 13:8-12) #crashcourseseries

Point for the Day

In healthy relationships, we is always more important than me (Genesis 13:8) #crashcourseseries

NFL Conference Championship Game Picks

New England Patriots at Denver Broncos

Parker: Broncos

Turner: Broncos

Tonya: Broncos

Greg: Broncos

San Francisco 49ers at Seattle Seahawks

Parker: Seahawks

Turner: Seahawks

Tonya: Seahawks

Greg: Seahawks

We're thinking it will be both home teams winning in two close games.

Point for the Day

Comparisons lead down two paths. One toward jealousy/envy. The other toward pride. Both paths are destructive. #crashcourseseries

Point for the Day

In healthy relationships, comparisons are avoided as they seldom lead to positive outcomes #crashcourseseries

NFL Conference Semifinal Picks- Sunday's match-ups

San Francisco at Carolina
Parker: San Francisco
Turner: Carolina
Tonya: San Francisco
Greg: San Francisco

San Diego at Denver
Parker: Denver
Turner: Denver
Tonya: Denver
Greg: Denver

NFL Conference Semifinal Picks- Saturday's match-ups

Not that we did so well last weekend, but here are today's picks:

New Orleans at Seattle
Parker: Seattle
Turner: Seattle
Tonya: Seattle
Greg: Seattle

Indianapolis at New England
Parker: New England
Turner: Indianapolis
Tonya: New England
Greg: New England

Great Quote Thursday

Sometimes the roadblock to a healthy future is a phenomenal past- Keith Yamashita

Point for the Day

When our relationship with Christ is in order, all our other relationships are healthier #crashcourseseries

Point for the Day

In healthy relationships, no one keeps score, no referee is needed #crashcourseseries

BCS National Championship Game Picks

#1 Florida State vs. #2 Auburn

Parker: Florida State
Turner: Florida State
Tonya:  Auburn
Greg: Florida State

Tonya: "My gut tells me Auburn".
Parker: "Auburn is out of miracles".

For the record, I've yet to correctly pick the winner of any BCS bowl game this season.

Point for the Day

Major on the majors (Luke 10:42)

NFL Wildcard Weekend Picks

Chiefs at Colts
Parker: Colts
Turner: Chiefs
Tonya: Colts
Greg: Chiefs

Saints at Eagles
Parker: Eagles
Turner: Eagles
Tonya: Eagles
Greg: Eagles

Chargers at Bengals
Parker: Bengals
Turner: Bengals
Tonya: Bengals
Greg: Bengals

49ers at Packers
Parker: Packers
Turner: Packers
Tonya: 49ers
Greg: 49ers

Point for the Day

When God is speaking, keep listening (Matthew 2:19-23)

Point for the Day

It's possible to be close to Jesus but not close with Jesus (Matthew 13:57, 58)

Point for the Day

We dwell on the then (past). We dream of the then (future). We'd do well to enjoy the now. (Ecclesiastes 3:11)